Can I get some adult advice please? Friends who get into relationships...?

One of my best friends was a guy, i was 18 he was about 21, we hung out all the time. Until he started dating this girl and i never heard of him for a whole year. Now he has broken up with that girl and got back into contact with me. Im pretty pissed off, what should i do?Can I get some adult advice please? Friends who get into relationships...?
follow your heartCan I get some adult advice please? Friends who get into relationships...?
If you are ';friends'; with a guy, they have to break it off if they have a girlfriend...it's only respectful.





If you have decided you want to be more than friends with this guy, then you would have to communicate that to him! How's he suppose to know?





Ask him what his intentions are if it bothers you that he has contacted you again.
Tell him like, jokingly oh why didnt we talk when you were dating that girl (say it sarcasticly). Or when u date a guy dont talk to him haha!
stay pissed. he's using you.
Yeah - You have to be careful with these kind of guys. You will always be the 'rebound' girl. My roommate was in a 3 year relationship with a guy just like that. They would go out until he found another girl and when they broke up, he would go straight to my roommate again; she allowed this for 3 years.





Like the others commented above, don't let yourself be second choice. He needs to realize that you have a life, other guys want you just as much and that you weren't put on this earth for whenever he feels like contacting you.





He is stubborn, he won't get the picture if you just ignore him nor will he change if you address the situation to him.
You are a safe place to heal....in his mind....





Move on...who needs the hurt?
He probably realized he cares a lot more for you than her. But you have a right to know what is going on. Ask him about his feelings toward you, and ask him why he broke up with her. He shouldn't just want to hang out with you as a buddy, especially if you want a serious relationship. Good luck to you.
i would feel prity annoyed that i was getting used as a second choice ,tell him to move on
Mabey his Girl friend didnt trust him so he didnt talk to yyou while they were dating. It still sounds like hes using you though/ Talk to him about it.
Well i guess if u guys were best friends before, you should be able to sit down and talk to him about it. Tell him how u feel, and ask him what it is he wants from you again now all of the sudden.





I think that tends to happen when some people get into relationships. They end up blocking out of the rest of the world, and only focus on their ';love.'; Which of course isn't the right thing to do, and it really sucks. Which is why sometimes you got to knock them on the head and let them know how you feel and find what exactly it is that they are playing at.





Hope you get it sorted out.
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don't feel that way. may be youre just jealous during the time he never communicate at all.


just entertain, time will come he will notice that the mate his looking for is you.
Why are you pissed off really? A true friendship spans the test of time and distance and what else are friends for then to be there when the other one stumbles or falls flat on his /her face?


sounds to me like you are not much of a friend and putting conditions on your love of your supposed friend.. Or you are not being honest with yourself about how you really feel about him?..


A true friend would be standing there at the end of my personal hell , awaiting my return with open arms.. not judging me..
I would say something to him along the lines of:





';I'm glad you want to hang out, but it really hurt my feelings that you ignored me the whole time you were seeing %26lt;insert exgirlfriend's name here%26gt;. Why didn't you call me then?';





I believe whatever answer he gives will determine whether you want him in your life or not.
well ill say probably his girl had him under control or he was just to busy enjoying life iknow your mad but being in friendships you ought to expect this an more after all hes a guy your best friend and he was with a girl put yourself in her shoes jealousy is funny as much as love is so if i were you ill lay my cards on t he table ask him to tell me the truth about it all and be grateful hes back cause not many friends return after leaving
Don't be 2nd choice for anyone.
he sounds like a realy user. u should definatly keep ur distance. gd luk xx
I think he's using you now that he broke up with his girl, so you should ignore him.