I would suggest getting off the computer and going out in the world. Get some fresh air in your lungs and sun on your face. It will be hard at first, but just try to go and do things that interest you. Museum, library, church, grocery shopping, whatever it may be. You can meet people everywhere.ANY ON GOT advice ON meeting a woman?
Churches are great places to meet people.
First of all..why is there a ';void'; if you are not involved w/someone? Try hanging out with yourSELF for awhile! It will boost your self esteem AND make you more interesting and confident, which, btw, women like.
Besides that, NO woman wants a man who looks ';desperate';, any more than men do! So...make sure you look relaxed and adopt the attitude (a good thing anyway) that you're NOT in a rush to get into a relationship.
Find women w/common interests. In the end....this can be far more important to a lasting relationship than how ';in love'; you are. People who are often ';passionately'; in love can be the worst for each other in the long run...
But if you're a true romantic, then go for it (the passion) and take the ride, wherever you may end up. IF you're practical, then try to see how compatible you'll be w/your dates.
But above all...try being compatible...FIRST AND FOREMOST....with yourself!!! Without that, you're just leeching off every woman you date, and they'll know it.
Just let it happen... don't just meet someone, because you want to fill that void.... but do go out to meet ';people';... maybe you meet a person- who knows someone and that person introduces you to someone else... before you know it- you are with someone you are madly in love with again. Relax and most of all make yourself attractive again... for yourself.
think very deeply about what interests you. Then you have to find a group of people who share those interests with you.
It can be anything you want, and most of all it has to be a part of you that you like.
Meeting others this way is far better than doing the random chance thingy at some sleazy bar where they only look good and robb you of your heart and soul.
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