Got this message in a seminar, don't read it if you're an athiest;
The peacefulness and harmony of a home should rest upon God, for it is He who instituted merriage and family from the beggining. One must make sure that a home is founded on reverence of the Lord God. Directed by obedience to His word, guided by hope in His promises and sheltered by faith in His power
A good father must be able to manage his own family well and make his children obey him with all respect but should not abuse parental authority so as to provoke his children to anger
In my own view, you and your bride will undergo some dramatic changes. Be clever enough not to lead these changes to misunderstanding. Merriage is a lifetime partnership. start it right, have faith in each other and God will take care of the rest. Good luck wise man but I am wiser than you heheheFinally, I am going to get married. Any advice please ?
My only advice for you is to love your spouse with all your heart. Make sure you have no past regrets about prior relatioships. Remember to communicate. Spend as much time you can with your spouse. Respect each other and appreciate each other. Congrats and good luck. Best wishes.
well I would love to give you some advice on getting married seeing as how i just got married a couple months ago; however I need some more information. What exactly do you need advice on? The location, honeymoon, rings. Need info
always communicate. Communication is the secret key.
Communication and honesty, NEVER ever do the smallest thing that could make her loose trust in you, if you are found to lie about the small things she will always suspect you, with no trust there is no relationship. Also try to remember to tell her if she looks good, or you have a rush of feeling for her. Don't keep things to yourself, which brings us back to communication!! Good luck
Apparently you have waited a lot of years before actually taking your walk down the aisle? Then you will probably have an awesome marriage...and having never been married before you won't be bringing any baggage into the relationship...so that is awesome...That alone gives a couple a head start in a marriage. Just remember to always kiss each other goodnight even if you are angry with each other. Never let a day pass that you don't show your love for one another. Congratulations and Good Luck!
Be honest and truthful and always communicate with your wife, love her unconditionally and show her your love always.
Getting married huh? Great!!! My advice is this. Never ask for anything of your wife that you wouldn't do yourself. When you have an argument and you will let her know you are angry but you still love her and it is not the end of the world. Praise her sincerely for what she does. Occasionally (at least once a week) tell her she is so beautiful, you picked the best one for you, she is perfect for you, find little things to complement her on. Like her toes or hands or stomach whether thin or large.
Take time to make sex the best for her because if it is great for her then she will do all kinds of things to please you.
Never ever cheat and never give her a reason to suspect you will. Always try new things. My husband cannot swim and is scared of water but I took him kayaking. It was a trip of a life time. The most enjoyable thing we have done so far. So never stop trying new things it makes life exciting.
one word: pre-nup
Communication is key
OMG.....well congrats......i'm getting married too......yey.....lol
Friendship is key.
You need to know two words. And these words are VERY VERY important, in fact they might be the most important two words in your marriage.
They are : Yes dear!
This is not a joke and I am not trying to get an easy two points. If you want to have any peace in your marriage learn those words.
Congratulations and good luck
Ask her all the ';what ifs'; up front. Like if she gains 50 lbs, are to stay faithful, If she decides she doesn't feel like working anymore will she then take care of the house and all that goes along with that. Just make sure that you both understand that things will change alot more than you may think. Find out what changes she plans on YOU making.Find out what changes she will be making. Things like a sex schedule for when you both have a hard time making time for it. Trust me, a bigger problem than you might think. Good Luck and just ask what if.
Don't................................!!! why are you doing it.......???
You think its the grown thing to do.......???
Comon..........!!!?!?!?!?! What makes you wan't to get married.......??? Why can't you just be together.......??
Its the same thing............!!!
be faithful to your wife and marry with whom you love her really and she loves you too. best wishes!
The fact that you are even asking this question should tell you something. People rush into marriage too fast and they almost always end up in a bad divorce. Take your time and make sure there is water in the pool before you jump in
dont!
why did you ask that? now i'm going to really explain you somethingand when a woman talks you can't stop her even if you try ! it depends on the woman you chose to be your wife...don't be a jerk ; don't ignore her to flirt with other women she will remember and dump you when you least expect it ; don't try to pick up girls when she is around ! trust me women notice, not all of them say what they notice though :D be careful women nowadays can leave just like that ! and there is no turning back once you made her very upset ! so the main advice is : always think before you act
Congratulations. The only advice I can give may not be worth anything because I would say live together for a few years first. My wife and I lived together for 10 years before we got married. Relationships are easy to fall into but are difficult to get out of once they are under legal sanction. If you already know each other very well and are in love, then that's what people do. They get married, presumably have children, and make a life together. Good luck.
make sure this is the right one and make sure you kill all doubts by having an open conversation with her.
Communication is key....I've been married for almost a year.
Congratulations by the way!
well, the only advice I can give, is if you don't feel it is right, or you are not happy... do not waste years hoping it will work out. You will hate yourself for it. On the other side of the argument, really, if you two are very happy I bless you... just remember that no one is perfect, and nothing is worth fighting about... you can never take back something once you have said it... it is really hard.
get laid as much as u can b4 u get married lol jk
so to answer ur question hmmm think about a prenp
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