Advice to get over it!?

My long term ex left with no real explanation soon before I was due to move into his. He wouldn't elaborate on ';not feeling the way he should about us'; then he said his goodbyes forever. I am getting on fine, getting on with my life. I sent one email asking how he was a month later, the reply was ';fine.'; Its like he's someone else altogether. So I've left it, trying to pick up the pieces and get on with it. I don't understand him at all, I didn't see it coming and thought everything was fine. In the meantime, any advice to forget about someone, is lack of closure something you can get over easily enough, is it unnecessary really. And how do I trust another guy again? Thanks in advance for you time and advice :)Advice to get over it!?
just chill with friends, go hang out, do lots of exercise and take care of yourselfAdvice to get over it!?
If he left you for no reason hes not worth the trouble, trusting another guy probably will be a little hard but trust me I have gone through this, just wait a while until you feel alright about having another boyfriend.
There is no closure. There's just getting over.


The problem is we trust a little less after each bad relationship or ending. Just give it some time and concentrate on things you enjoy doing.


Good luck.
This is the hardest thing to get over... It cannot really get over a heartbreak you just learn to deal with it. The best thing you can do is continue dating other ppl and do not jump into a serious relationship. Not all guys are alike dont let the next guy u date suffer from ur ex's mistakes!
Yeah, sometimes we aren't allowed the dignity of closure, and it hurts something awful. Do the things you love to do. Enjoy whatever fills you most. Be with friends who are supportive. Go to lunch... go to the movies... fill your days. Just stay busy, and talk it out with the people in your life who care about you. Thats really the best advice one can offer. Try not to contact him, as it will only make this harder on you. It will just rake up unnecessary and avoidable pain and give you new crap to mull over. As far as trusting again, you'll have plenty of opportunity to practice when the right guy comes into your life. Just focus on today for now.