Your advice to young couples who are about to get married?

Your advice to young couples who are about to get married?Your advice to young couples who are about to get married?
This is a dating guide for women; however, you two can apply much of it to your pre-marital talks. Also, agree to never go to bed mad and without a kiss when coming or going from one another day to day.








If A Man Really Wants You!





If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.


If he does not want you, nothing can make him stay.


Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.


Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.


Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that is not meant to be.


S l o w e r is better.


Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.


If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve; then heck no, you cannot ';be friends';.


A friend would never mistreat a friend.


Do not settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.


Do not stay because you think, ';it will get better';.


You will be mad at your self, a year later, for staying when things are not better.


The only person you can control in a relationship is you.


Avoid men who have a bunch of children by a bunch of different women.


He did not marry them when he got them pregnant. Why would he treat you any


differently?


Always have your own set of friends separate from his.


Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up.


Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.


You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within.


Do NOT EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he has more education or in a better job.


Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less.


Never let a man define who you are.


Never borrow someone else's man. Oh Lord! If he cheated with you, he will cheat on you.


A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.


All men are NOT dogs.


You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two-way street.


You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about baggage. Deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.


You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you. A relationship consists of


two WHOLE individuals. Look for someone complimentary, not supplementary.


Dating is fun, even if he does not turn out to be Mr. Right.


Make him miss you sometimes. When a man always knows where you are


and you are always readily available to him, he takes it for granted.


Do not fully commit to a man who does not give you everything that you need. Keep


him in your radar; but get to know others.Your advice to young couples who are about to get married?
First and foremost, make sure that it is what you really want to do. Don't rush into things just to be getting married.





Be honest


Be faithful


Communicate


Don't go to bed angry


Always say I love you


And keep the romance alive





This will be hard to do when you have kids, but I promise you, one night alone will make a big difference.
Never go to bed angry


and Kiss/hug every morning and tell each other you ';I love you'; You never know when it will be your last time to say it.
Um from experience wait to have the children and enjoy each other first at least for a couple of years. If all is working out then bring children into the world. Also money is the #1 reason for divorce and now I see why, all we do is fight over money, keep seperate bank accounts and divide who is going to pay what each month and what ever is left over is for you to sped how you like. i think thats my 2 biggest problems getting married young.
1. Be sure that is what you want to do.


2. Share everything in the marriage 50% -50%.


3. Be true to each other, always.


4. Be open and honest about everything. Don't keep secrets about anything.


5. Most important; tell each other, everyday and night that you love them.
don't get married before you have an education and a job. don't get married just because you got pregnant. get counseling.
Thank God for everyday; with that person. Pray for your marriage, happiness and everything including your decisions, dissagreements, in gereral for all. Keep the respect ALWAYS, no matter how bad things get. do not disrespect each other. remember the love that brought you together. do for each other, not for what you can get out of it, but just because you want to do for each other. don't talk your problems out with the world. if there's ever anything that the two of you cannot resolve seek professional help. Don't let anyone talk bad about each other. only you and him know your faults. attend to your home together. there's no such thing as woman or man chores. wait if it's possible good two, three years to have children. focus on building your future and LOVE each other. God bless you.