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Entrepreneur.com http://www.smallbizbooks.com/cgi-bin/Sma鈥?/a>I want to open my own restaurant and i would like some good advice on how to get started.?
Eat at a good restaurant and observe how they do things. Then improve on it!

Need advice to get out of homelessness?

I am 19 years old and I have a 3 month old son. We are currently staying at a homeless shelter with no income and bad credit. Nothing. The homeless shelter says they cannot help us because I have no income but we are more then welcome to stay there. I want to get a place of our own, but it seems that no one can help us. DHS even says they can't help us. Any advice on what I can do to get a place of my own? There are no jobs around here, so get a job is not an acceptable answer. Please, helpful answers only.Need advice to get out of homelessness?
The only advice that I can really give is to get a job, sorry. If there are no jobs in your are, then move to a place where there are jobs. Keep in mind that places like grocery stores, fast food places, and such are often hiring in the late summer, because the kids who worked there over the break are all going back to school. Hope this helped, sorry if it's not what you were looking for. Good luck.

Need advice to get money by myself?

well.. im 13 years old.. n still live w/ my parents.. but these days i have no money cuz ive spent them for playing online games haha.. [actually i still hve quite lot in bank.. but i never want 2 spend it] im still go 2 school.. 8th grade.. well.. lately i can make money by selling name cards w/ meaning of my customer's name that i design.. but it takes too long time.. bside i hve to spend money for the printing n laminating.. i cant sell the if i dun hve money to print it.. so can u give me advice how can i get money by myself of course not by robbing things.. thx..








PS: pliz DO NOT critizing bout my grammar, punctuation or stuffs.. i really need advice for tiz.. thx very muchNeed advice to get money by myself?
You know is a tough problem then. But i know how its hard to get on this live without money. i never have a problem like you but my parents sometimes retire what i want. I think if we want to get money you have to work hard and need to sacrified something. Maybe you have to set up a appointment for your seft exsample : dont buy games or film in one month, dont play online games for one week only 2/3 times a month. From that things you can save your money and have a modal to make something and sell it or you can use your money to work or do something. Maybe from doing simple things like be a cleaning servis in some little store or etc (but i dont know if in your country is different then in America) the important thing is you have to make a commitment to save and finding money. thats from me thx


Hope the best!! :)Need advice to get money by myself?
nice to hear at early age you are already money concious or money oriented, you can find a friend or whoever with similar likes,i mean do partnership with others so that to extend your network, likewise she or he will be assign to do specific work ,while you do another work like printing etc.,and profits will be share equally, this system are good for you to find out ,who you will trust.
i am from another planet ,here children of 13 years don't even think of living alone or away from their parents ,when ever children's need money they ask parents if they get it it is fine otherwise it is OK,.................... perhaps you can ask your parents....... baby sitting....cleaning garden .... may be some of the options
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  • Good advice to get my ex back?

    Hi broke up with me 2 months ago after 2 years together. We were buying a house together and out of nowhere he bailed, saying he hadn't been feeling right for a while. I realise now I had been grumpy towards the end of the relationship and more demanding then usual. Since then I've mailed him once saying hi, he mailed back saying he was fine but nothing else. I miss him horribly and am unsure what to do. I have to say when we were together he was a brilliant boyfriend albeit not the most open with his feelings. We had something really special and I think we deserve another chance. I don't want to pester him, and anyone saying move on, i have I'm dating other people but noone compares to him. I need advice to get him back, do I give him more time? Ignore him? Call him once a week, try to be friends? I need advice to get him back, any other advice I don't need, just how to get him back. Thanks in advance.Good advice to get my ex back?
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    janeGood advice to get my ex back?
    You need to move on with your life and stop comparing people to him - lets be fair (he bailed on you for no apparent reason) even though you try to justify his actions be saying your were grumpy, - what happens if you get back together and you get depressed or have a difficult time - will he be there for you or will he bail - whooooosh -%26gt;%26gt;slam - yep that was him and the door. Move on, if he wants to contact you he will but dont let someone who is so closed and unreliable back into your life, you need to remember how you felt after he bailed on you!! if he was as great as you think he would never have bailed in the first place, he would haev toook the time to find out why you where a little grumpy
    call him and tell him exactly what you told us here..that u love him, u r sorry for your actions and you want to give the relationship another chance. if he says no, that means he has his mind made up already so you have to move on...that doesnt necessarily mean you got to jump on the next guy coming, but work on yourself and allow time to heal. if he says yes, be a good girlfriend and try you best this time around. good luck
    Did you ever meet his parents?





    What were you doing that you think you can change??





    Do they like you. could they be persuaded to try on your behalf, at least to get more info, so you will see that you ARE well rid of the qutter!!!





    May 2008 be a better year!
    Why? Why would anyone who gets out of a relationship want back into it? Run...RUN LIKE HELL FAR, FAR AWAY!
    Give him time and hope for the best. Thats all you can do. Maybe stay in touch with him, but don't badger him with anything. Also, keep going out with other guys.

    Any advice on how to be a better person to bf and get over the past?

    :)





    Just looking for some personal experiences or words of wisdom to help me be a better gf to my boyfriend.. I have some insecurities I guess you could say and I can't deny that I don't get bothered by his past and his ex... *sigh*





    I know it's life.. and we all have a past, but do you guys ever feel that way? And what do you do to ease your mind? Thanks ;-)Any advice on how to be a better person to bf and get over the past?
    Is he with you or his ex?...


    Who he is with is who he cares about...





    His ex is a good friend to you...


    She let him go so that he could find you...

    Need advice. i get to scared to make a move on my guy to do a handjob?

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    Need advice to get this girl I like?

    So years back in the 8th grade I was a bit of a nihilist and didn't care for relationships. In fact, a lot of girls liked me and asked me out, but alas, I rejected every offer (I'm shy). So one girl gave me a love letter. She was into Naruto and junk back then but I wasn't interested. I was going to read the letter later, but forgot about it for about a week, which I regret. Later, my mom cleaned out my bookbag and found the letter. I was embarrassed after she was reading it and making fun of it with my brother. I was so embarrassed that I snatched the letter, ripped it up, and threw it away.





    Ok, so the next year, 9th grade. I saw her occasionally and she gave me a shy look as well. I was beginning to actually like her, or grow attached to her, in other words. The year passed and nothing happened. She'd say hi to me in the 8th grade. I'm sure she was still very much interested.





    I changed schools the next year and, well, yeah, that year went by quick, but then I changed back to my original high school.





    I failed my freshman year and she and the rest of my class are now above me.... k.............................. Anyway, I guess she had a surprised look that I was back that year. A month later, she started to sit across from me in the lunch foyer, reading books and giving me occasional looks. Like, the shy kind that if I saw her looking at me, she'd turn real fast and act like she was reading her book.





    I have a nack for making the wrong face at the wrong times and I guess I made a face that scared her off one day. The rest of the days, she'd look at me a few times and, well, yeah. Once, she was even walking in the hallway and I was right behind her (she knew) and she started walking slowly and turned around to see if I was looking but I turned to the staircase right as she did. I tried to seem uninterested, yet I really liked her. I sabotaged myself in this perspective. Later, she started to hang out with more of her friends and, well, I haven't seen interest come from her. She might've had a boyfriend by now, although I can't be sure. I thought about her all summer and now, back at school, I see her and feel like my ******* heart if going to malfunction. I try not to look at her to the point where she notices but damn. I felt like I was going to have a seizure next period. I want to talk to her and get to know her, but I'm too ******* shy. To exemplify how ****** up I am, I've never had a friend in my entire school life and have always been known as the quiet guy. Although some people say that I look like I'd be a fun sociable person (people say that I'm cute as a button and even compare me to Kurt Cobaine in looks).





    In that 8th grade letter, she probably wrote things that she probably expects me to know right now, which is why I regret it.





    I have no idea what to ******* do. I've given off the 'not interested' impression, this I know. I know her myspace but am too afraid to message her and see how she feels. She's a bit of a heavy set girl, dyes her hair, likes comicbooks, manga, and anime from what I know. I've even seen her working at my local theater and I know I looked like a total loser when I showed my face there.








    I don't want to look like a stalker just making a myspace and messaging her. She has a lot of friends and is pretty good at talking to others but shy with me, I guess.





    Also, by wrong face, I meant the grumpy kind. I usually have this mindset and accidentally look at people with it on. Not like I made a face like that with the intention of scaring her away.





    Advice would be very much appreciated. ._.Need advice to get this girl I like?
    haha dam that was long, anyway I know the wrong face your talking about I have accidentaly giving it to many girls and turned them off quick. Anyway this may seem like a crappy answer but its the best thing in my opinion. When you see her 1st day of school simply ask her how her summer was, then intoduce yourself. If you feel a good vibe going your in so after a couple days of talking I'd ask her out or at least get her number.


    Remember man what are you scared of?? rejection?? trust me not knowing if you would have made a good couple is worse than being rejected.

    Advice on Getting Parents to let me take Ballet?

    I want to take ballet classes badly but my parents automatically say no when I bring up the subject. There are plenty of people who start after they're 5, there was even a girl who went pro and she started at 18. I've been asking since I was really little (around 7), but even know I think it's too late. Please can anyone help me persuade them? I've tried talking it out with them but they just don't listen.Advice on Getting Parents to let me take Ballet?
    I would advise you to carefully plan out how you are going to bring up the subject. Don't threaten them, that will only make them more annoyed at your asking, just simple state that you have been wanting to take ballet for a long time. Show them that you are really serious about this, and is responsible, (such as for the cost). They will realize that ballet is important to you and is not one of those fantasy dreams. They are your parents, they understand you! Just wait awhile and they will come around! That is what I did when i wanted to start taking ballet classes...my parents did let me!Advice on Getting Parents to let me take Ballet?
    I'm starting ballet at age 15 if that helps.


    Tell them it's good excersize. =P
    I've had the same problem with my parents, I begged them to let me take ballet but they always said that it cost too much and that I am too old to start now (I'm 14). I think I've convinced them now, but only after I almost burst into tears of desperation!
    Ask God to help you persuade them. If He wants you to take ballet, He WILL make a way.


    I hope this helps and you are able to take your ballet lessons!
    It may help if you focus on the benefits that your parents might see. Talk about the exercise you would be getting, and the discipline involved in the dance steps. you could also mention your social development, and physical coordination. I also heard that stretching is good for your growth.
    I started loving dance last year and i'm now 14... i want to take chinese dance lessons too and i think if want to persuade parents, tell them you will pay your fees on your own by saving your pocket money everyday... and also, train and practise on your own, let them realise how much you love it... parents will always give their child what they desperately wants... show them you love ballet terribly... it may work... even if you are not allowed to take the lessons... you can always still practise at home or just keep having passion for it!


    no matter whether there are lessons or not, your passion for dance will never weaken, right?
    Dancing really helps with balance so if you want to play any other sport than dancing is the advantage to have. if they won't hear it at all then write a letter explaining that you would help pay, explain the benefits and make sure you emphasize on your love for the form. do some research on it which will show them you are truly interested. if you are allowed a trial class make sure you give it your all and try your best! good luck!
    please ask your parents to believe in you...you can show them your interest by getting a scholarship. the dance school i know which offers scholarships are in india, i dont know if your intrested, anyway, their website is www.rockaroundtheclock.biz





    best of luck!
    Is it cause of money, maybe offer to help pay, or do extra chores around the house. I don't know their reason so I don't know how to help you convince them.
    Try saying, Mom, Dad, I know I've asked this question alot, but I would still like to take up ballet, I mean it would give me an after school activity, and would keep me active.
    ASk again, and the next time they say ';No';. Ask why? It'll let them no theres a reason you want to take ballet.
    I would explain to them the benefits of ballet like the fact that it's good excersize and can improve balance and hand-eye coordination which can be used in other areas of your life. I would also explain to them that it is your passion. Offer to help pay for classes or things you will need like the proper clothes and shoes. Show that you are determined and that you won't give up when it proves to be tough. If they don't believe you, buy a ';do-it-yourself'; tape for ballet and practice every night. Read up on it. Do research online, all in plain sight. When they see that you are determined and devoted, they might change their mind. Good luck. Everyone should pursue their passions.
    well, I don't know how old you are, but definetly if you've been wanting this since you were 7 you should be like ';mom, dad, I've been wanting to do this for nearly half my life, it's not just a silly fantasy.';


    Just be serious and nice about it. Or, maybe, call a ballet studio in town. Call the teacher about a scholarship or just talk to him/her about lessons. Tell the teacher about your situation. If your really passionate about it, it'll shine and the teacher won't just say no, he/she might even call your parents about it.
    Tell them it's either that or you'll have to hang around with boys.
    Keep at it. Sit down with them and tell them it's really something your looking to do, not just something you'll give up after a few weeks. Show them the Pors about ballet and let them show you the Cons. Then they might see that you are serious about doing this.





    Hope this helps and Good Luck!
    I started ballet when I was 11, and like you said, the girl that went pro at 18, so it's never too late.


    I've learned a lot from dance, concentration (it's helped me with tests in school) self-discipline (trying your best with the steps and such) balance (that's easy enough to explain) I've become more outgoing (meeting the students at dance, recitals onstage) flexibility (I can now do all three of my splits and other extensions)


    and its barely been three years of dance for me!


    Sit your parents down and have a serious talk about how much this means to you. Tell them why you want to take ballet, and why they think you shouldn't.
    Just suck at everything else you do, and scream


    IF ONLY I TOOK BALLET





    It worked in Man On Fire
    prove to them that it's the best thing u can do...do some extra chores...dance around the house...then ask and if they say no go dramatically to ur room and cry...

    Any advice to get a smooth strait hairdo???? OPEN AND READ FURTHER DEATS. :)?

    1. Please name a few shampoos that are good to get really straight hair but aren't expensive.


    2. Please name a few conditioners that are good to get really straight hair but aren't expensive.


    3. Any good gels or detangling stuff that could help with getting a straight glossy hairdo


    4. info bout my hair: tad longer than shoulderlength...layered. if i just let it airdry and brush it it looks a bit fluffy/ poofy. and i hateeeee it.





    HELP PLEASEAny advice to get a smooth strait hairdo???? OPEN AND READ FURTHER DEATS. :)?
    Herbal essences and Garnier both make great inexpensive shampoos, conditioners and gels, etc. One good product for getting glossy straight hair is Garnier Fructis Sleek %26amp; Shine Smoothing Serum, you put it into your hair after you wash it and then you blowdry it. :)
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  • Any advice to get self-mutilation out of my head for good?

    So basically I started hurting myself when I was around 10 years old. When my father would beat my sister and I, I would bang my head on whatever was sturdy, I would also pull out my hair and I would bite my tongue. You see in my household growing up crying was not allowed. If I was to cry my father would jerk my into the bathroom and beat me with his belt. Well as I have grown old about 1 year ago I started to cut myself as a different way to deal instead of the usual bruises on my head. I loved it, it helped immensly, well here the past few months I have started feeling more empty than ever before. I have been going to church and I actually got saved!! I went a month without hurting myself...I really thought i had stopped. Then I did it again when my uncle was caught doing meth at my house. Well now since my faith has grown in the Lord I believe I have gone nearly 5 months without hurting myself. Actually it hasnt crossed my mind until here recently. I don't want to cut at all...I don't want to fall back into the person I was...but yet I still am becuase I have all the temptation to do it again. I just want to stop completly...I have been to my doctor, told my parents about being depressed not about the cutting, told a close friend about the depression and cutting...I was even seeing a councelor a while back about it....I just don't want to do it anymore... I hate this feeling of hopelessness... the feeling of being inadequate in everything i do... Any advice to get self-mutilation out of my head for good?
    Pray diligently. Keep the contact with supportive Christian friends. Stay in the Word. Keep up with the counseling sessions, however with a qualified openly Christian (real Christian) counselor. Be in church every Sunday. Do regular weekly (or more often) Bible studies with other believing peers. Ask for prayer. Do church social activities. Stay away from others who practice self mutilation who are not seeking the LORD to come out of the behavior. As a matter of fact, I am going to pray for you right now. Any advice to get self-mutilation out of my head for good?
    You are a very strong person. You grew up in a war zone and survived. Oftentimes people have some trouble leaving their survival tactics behind. Fellowship and prayer are important, but if you feel in your heart you need more help, please do seek a good therapist. There are lots of 'em out there.

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    Pray about it! Prayer really works! If you are that head strong, then believe me you are very capable of quitting that! You sound like a very intelligent person and I am sorry that you had to live like that, but remember.. things could always be worse. But you should really tell your Mom and seek counseling to help you even more! Good luck, and I am proud of you for quitting for 5 months.. People get bad habits like biting their nails and it's hard to quit, but you have to want it bad enough to quit and I believe you can do it honey!

    Need advice to get off of adderall?

    ok so basically i have taken adderall to pull all nighters the past two nights to study for my bio test today. my test average is about a 60 in bio and i tried adderall for one night last time but i left too much work for the night before. so this time i tried to space it out and i wasnt planning on taking adderall but i only had about 3 hours the night before and 4 the night before that plus a 3 hour nap (had lab reports due each day so was up late).


    so the only way i could stay up and study more was if i took adderall or loaded myself on caffeine but i focus better so decided on adderall ( got it from a friend). so i pulled two all nighters the last two nights and this morning i was crashing so i basically had to take another one in order to go to my classes and survive to the test.





    and as i was walking to class up a huge hill my legs felt so weak my bodies almost dead but my mind is still running due to the adderall its wierd. im afraid of like having my legs collapse or something.





    so just looking for some advice on how to end this properly, i am obviously not taking any more and will probably go straight to sleep after the test unless i feel up to going to the football game.





    i dont want to become dependent or addicted to adderall i know it is bad and i know it is easy to become addicted but i will make sure i dont. i also HIGHLY regret this and i should have started a week ago but theres nothing i can really do now. so please dont leave me comments on how this was the worst thing i could have done to my body because i agree.





    its only my second time taking it and im just looking for some advice on how to deal with the situation im in nowNeed advice to get off of adderall?
    If you really want to stop you will.





    some people need a little help.. (probation)

    Need advice to get along w/ americans?

    Ok, I have been here(USA) like already 5 months and I can't get along w/ my church friends. I made few friends(5,6or 7 friends) at junior college...they r all not from USA which is fine.





    I don't know why Im so quiet while my americanfriends(?) enjoying their conversation. U can imagine that I'm like ornament. I keep smiling because I think that's the best thing I can do, but it doesn't work! of course!!





    they don't give a s*** to shy%26amp; quiet person...at all .


    Im not always quiet! I sometimes speak when some topics r commom like Japanese stuff.





    And Im shy to speak out to these americans. I can react like ';really?'; ';awesome!'; but I have to speak out longer than that! Im shy to speak out because they might not pay attention...and it have happens ..I feel like everybody doesn't want to listen to my boring word or talk.





    If I can be more talktive and more funny it must be easier to make friends! But i cant do that..honestly! i dunno how to be get their attention in good way!Need advice to get along w/ americans?
    Hmm, I don't think I really have an answer for you but I feel for ya. You've been here for five months already but I bet as more time goes by you'll feel more comfortable. It'll all work out. Be yourself, and the people who matter will like you for who ya are. Maybe you are hanging around a group of people who aren't very nice?Need advice to get along w/ americans?
    honestly it depends who u want to roll with. Smart people do good in class talk to them a little about work then gradually move out to other stuff. U can also do a project with them and invite them over. Pretty much find a common interest. With these kids go up to them and be loose with a good sense of humor. don't put anyone down. U may have to speak up to get ur words out but do it.

    I need advice on how to get over someone and get rid of that trapped feeling...?

    I take it there was a breakup? If you still want the relationship and he/she doesn't, that feeling sucks. But it should go away fairly soon. But you can't let it bog you down for to long. Find things to do like hang out with your friends and go to the gym. Start getting yourself in super shape and then the next person you date will be even hotter than the last!!! But don't get into a new relationship to soonI need advice on how to get over someone and get rid of that trapped feeling...?
    I tried this once: don't look at her.


    write all your feelings to her on a paper or on the computer, then delete or burn it. then say in yourself: there are other grls than her...if you have to deal with her, then just keep your answers formal untill you dont like her anymore, then you can talk casual


    Good Luck!!I need advice on how to get over someone and get rid of that trapped feeling...?
    go out. meet new people. have fun.
    just think about how mucj he/she hurt you. Listen to sad songs and if u do happen to cry u will get over the person cause u will relaize if they realy loved u they would never hurt you.
    Move on and find a diffrent girl
    get a new one. at any given moment x number of guys and x number of girls are crushed. when they get together xx things happen.
    ok now here is how you get over something you need to get away and go somewhere with your closest friend have the night of your life and forget everything and come back feeling fresh and new
    Think of the worst time you had with them, and remind yourself of that whenever you think of them. Thank yourself that you are not trapped in an unhappy relationship.


    If you never had a bad time with them, then think of why they ditched you and remind yourself that you deserve better.

    POTTY TRAINING: I need advice on how to get my daughter to poop in the potty and not in her pants?

    My daughter just turned 3 years old. She is very good at going pee in the potty, having very few accidents. But she consistently poops in her pants. I don't know what to do. I am very frustrated and tired on cleaning soiled undies (up to 4 times a day). Any advice??POTTY TRAINING: I need advice on how to get my daughter to poop in the potty and not in her pants?
    She may not be ready to poop in the potty yet.





    When my daughter was the same age she was afraid to poop in the potty because she thought the poop would splash her butt! LOL!





    I told her that she had to tell me when she was going to poop and then I would put a diaper on her and she would go in that. Eventually she learned when she needed to go and I was able to talk her into going into the potty. it took about 2-1/2 months to get her to that point but it was worth it. I hated washing all of those dirty underpants!POTTY TRAINING: I need advice on how to get my daughter to poop in the potty and not in her pants?
    I am a nanny what we decided to do was get the new feel and learn, they are absolutly horrible once your child is potty trained they hate the fact that the new feel and learns strat riseing in the crotch! She is now doing 100% better GOOD LUCK also try the potty book for girls avaliable almost anywhere, wal-mart barnes and noble books a million etc
    Your facing one of the most difficult steps in potty training. Many kids are trained to use the toilet to urinate but withold pooping. Its normal. See if you can find out why this is. Sometimes children fear that thewy are ';losing '; a part of themselves in the toilet or they are afraid of the toilet itself. My nephew was 3 also before he used the tiolet consistently for both forms of elimination. Stay at it. Try rewards and be patient.
    Schedule a time for her to go,even if does not want to.
    Try give her a book to look at, she may need to constantart on something else when she goes.
    my daughter had the same problem!!


    What we did, is the POOPOO CHEER! She's been trained for almost a yr and she still does the cheer, lol.


    First, when I noticed she had to go, I ran her to the potty, basically forced her to go there.


    Then when she finally did, we clapped danced yelled.


    The cheer was...


    P O O P, who goes poop in the Potty? Katie..Yeah Katie! I know it sounds crazy but it works. My 14 month old son is even wanting to go now, lol. She started sitting on the potty just so she could call people and do the cheer on the phone. (which also seemed to help) she would talk to grandparents while she went give them a play by play lol.
    show her how to
    maybe this will help :http://www.drgreene.com/21_762.html
    Buy whatever underpants have a picture of the current hot cartoon character. At one time it was Sponge Bob. ';You don't want to get the Sponge Bob underpants dirty, do you?';
    When potty training my twins stickers and rewards seemed to work, perhaps it might be helpful to you as well.


    Make up a chart with numbers 1 to 10


    Each time she goes #2 on the potty she gets a sticker. When she gets to ten she gets to pick out a small toy at the store.


    Next make a chart number 1 to 20.


    Again same with the stickers and a small toy.


    Then make a chart from 1 to 50 and when she gets to 50 she can get a really great toy she鈥檚 been wanting for a long time.
    You can try a few things. First, try letting her go commando, no underwear, for a couple days. Obviously it will have to be when you have a few days to really concentrate on this. As soon as she looks like she's getting ready to go, get her to the bathroom. I've done this with my kids and it's worked. I haven't tried this, but have heard from it. Put a potty seat in the living room or whatever room she spends her most time, help her use it there, and then gradually move it to the bathroom.


    I've also heard, because 3 is such an old age to not be potty trained, if they have an accident, make them clean it up, and because they don't like it, they will start using the bathroom. Whatever you do, during the day, you need to get the kid out of diapers or pull ups and into underwear. Kids have no incentive to use the toilet, because diapers do not make it uncomfortable for them to mess in them. If they have crappy drawers, there is incentive to use the bathroom. Hope this helps.
    when she will be older that will stop if she is a normal child
    I just started potty training my daughter.She 2,and I leave her without a pamper(she wears old clothes) and I'm constantly taking her to the bathroom. That seems to work if you don't mind the accidents.
    I made a bag of wrapped ';gifts'; from the dollar store. A poop in the potty earned a pick from the gift bag. It worked for my son, it didn't work for the kid next door when I suggested it to his mom. The gifts could be candy, kid nail polish, any little things.

    I love singing but when I get really nervous and my jaw starts shaking and I start freaking out. Any advice?

    Why do you get nervous? Maybe you should look at the root of the problem. I was a drummer for years before breaking an ankle and couldn;t play my drums for about 6 months. The band I was in shoved me infront of a micraphone and made me sing. The most damned nerve wracking thing I have ever done. Now I sing lead for a very popular local hard rock cover band. Nerves are a killer (see Brook two nights ago on A.I.) That stage is YOURS when you are up there singing. OWN it, believe what you are singing. If you have the guts to get up and sing in front of people, then you can control the nerves. It takes some time, but once you find the confidence to perform, rather than just sing, the nerves will go away.





    Rock on....I love singing but when I get really nervous and my jaw starts shaking and I start freaking out. Any advice?
    I know what you mean. I have been singing in a choir since the first grade. I could never sing a solo because I would get scared. You should start off small, sing for one of your friends. Then branch out to a couple of friends, after start singing for your family then maybe one day you will get over your nervousness and sing at a talent show or maybe even try out for american Idol.lol
  • mark makeup
  • My daughter has a fever that came out of nowhere.We can't get ahold of her doctor for advice so...?

    what can she take(over the counter) to help break it? She cannot take any liquid medicine well(as we learned when she had a cold a few months ago.) What else can we do besides any medicine?My daughter has a fever that came out of nowhere.We can't get ahold of her doctor for advice so...?
    depending on how high her temp is you may need to go to the er...to have some fever is ok that means its fighting off infections but if its presits then,,get medical helpMy daughter has a fever that came out of nowhere.We can't get ahold of her doctor for advice so...?
    How old is she? How high is the fever?


    Have you tried cold compresses?


    Keep her hydrated.


    Call the emergency room at your local hospital and ask what they think you should do.


    If it is high enough, they may tell you to go to the hospital.
    if you have her in blankets, take them off then only trap heat close to her and it will not brake the fever. take her clothes off of her, you can leave underwear/ diaper on. If she can drink juice, you can see if she'll drink that with meds in it. Tylenol and Motrin mix together work best, mix it with no more than 4oz of juice. Good luck. If the temp. is over 104 take her to the ER. if its under they do what I listed above. Happened with my 1 year old daughter
    don't give her any fever reducers unless her fever is over 103 degrees and if it is then take her to the hospital
    How high is the fever? Sometimes fevers are no big deal.

    Help i need some advice on how to get toned for the film i will be in?

    i am trying to get toned for this independat movie my bro is filming


    i wrok out four times a week i am eating healthly i am 5;9 inches 168 pounds i was wondering theoretically how long is it going to tak me to loose 15 pounds and how much cardio if i want to see results hard and how many rest days dose the average person have. another question is do u know any healthy foods to eat for lunch and breakfast with low calories, i am going to have to do some sex scene so i want to look my bestHelp i need some advice on how to get toned for the film i will be in?
    The best way to tone muscle and to lose weight is weightlifting.


    The healthiest amount of weight to lose per week is 2-3 pounds anymore then that you may have some problems. So I would say 5-6 weeks to lose in a healthy manner.


    As far a food just watch what you eat, in other words read the nutritional facts. Avoid those with a high amount of sugar (I said high not none!). And eat small portions (nothing that can fill a plate).Help i need some advice on how to get toned for the film i will be in?
    Here's what I've seen work.





    Daily exercise:


    Just walk briskly. That way you wont gain any unwanted muscle bulk.





    Breakfast:


    Fresh Fruit (even 2 or 3)


    Green Tea





    Snack:


    Fruit


    Green Tea or water with lemon





    Lunch:


    Big veggie Salad with water canned tuna, no dressing (add lots of different veggies to really make it appealing)


    Fruit (make it different than before!!!)


    Green Tea or Water with lemon





    Snack:


    veggies - raw





    Supper:


    Protien: fish, skinless chicken, pork, lean beef


    Vegetable: no starchy potatoes.





    Snack:


    veggies (get lots of interesting ones... or try juicing them... no salt)








    Points to remember:


    no fruits after lunch (they turn to sugar and then fats)


    no complex carbohydrates / grains


    no sugar


    no dairy


    no salt





    Drink lots of water until a couple days before your big scenes. Then you should lose the water those days, to yes, not healthy, but dehydrate yourself.
    How quickly you lose weight depends upon numerous factors such as


    1 first of all your metabolic rate. If you have a high metabolic rate then you will lose weight quickly.


    2 how much you exercise.If you want to lose weight quickly then you are going to have to do a bit of weight training as well along with cardio exercises.You need a full body workout, working on each muscle-group separately.


    3 it is easy to plan a fitness programme but very difficult to stick with it, especially when you don't get the results as quickly as you expect them.


    4 go for a pure vegetarian diet - lots of fruits, vegetables and cut out the fatty foods like cheese, oils, etc.


    5 again, it is easy to plan a diet but very difficult to stick to it.

    My daughter has a fever that came out of nowhere.We can't get ahold of her doctor for advice so...?

    what can she take(over the counter) to help break it? She cannot take any liquid medicine well(as we learned when she had a cold a few months ago.) What else can we do besides any medicine?My daughter has a fever that came out of nowhere.We can't get ahold of her doctor for advice so...?
    depending on how high her temp is you may need to go to the er...to have some fever is ok that means its fighting off infections but if its presits then,,get medical helpMy daughter has a fever that came out of nowhere.We can't get ahold of her doctor for advice so...?
    How old is she? How high is the fever?


    Have you tried cold compresses?


    Keep her hydrated.


    Call the emergency room at your local hospital and ask what they think you should do.


    If it is high enough, they may tell you to go to the hospital.
    if you have her in blankets, take them off then only trap heat close to her and it will not brake the fever. take her clothes off of her, you can leave underwear/ diaper on. If she can drink juice, you can see if she'll drink that with meds in it. Tylenol and Motrin mix together work best, mix it with no more than 4oz of juice. Good luck. If the temp. is over 104 take her to the ER. if its under they do what I listed above. Happened with my 1 year old daughter
    don't give her any fever reducers unless her fever is over 103 degrees and if it is then take her to the hospital
    How high is the fever? Sometimes fevers are no big deal.

    Help i need some advice on how to get toned for the film i will be in?

    i am trying to get toned for this independat movie my bro is filming


    i wrok out four times a week i am eating healthly i am 5;9 inches 168 pounds i was wondering theoretically how long is it going to tak me to loose 15 pounds and how much cardio if i want to see results hard and how many rest days dose the average person have. another question is do u know any healthy foods to eat for lunch and breakfast with low calories, i am going to have to do some sex scene so i want to look my bestHelp i need some advice on how to get toned for the film i will be in?
    The best way to tone muscle and to lose weight is weightlifting.


    The healthiest amount of weight to lose per week is 2-3 pounds anymore then that you may have some problems. So I would say 5-6 weeks to lose in a healthy manner.


    As far a food just watch what you eat, in other words read the nutritional facts. Avoid those with a high amount of sugar (I said high not none!). And eat small portions (nothing that can fill a plate).Help i need some advice on how to get toned for the film i will be in?
    Here's what I've seen work.





    Daily exercise:


    Just walk briskly. That way you wont gain any unwanted muscle bulk.





    Breakfast:


    Fresh Fruit (even 2 or 3)


    Green Tea





    Snack:


    Fruit


    Green Tea or water with lemon





    Lunch:


    Big veggie Salad with water canned tuna, no dressing (add lots of different veggies to really make it appealing)


    Fruit (make it different than before!!!)


    Green Tea or Water with lemon





    Snack:


    veggies - raw





    Supper:


    Protien: fish, skinless chicken, pork, lean beef


    Vegetable: no starchy potatoes.





    Snack:


    veggies (get lots of interesting ones... or try juicing them... no salt)








    Points to remember:


    no fruits after lunch (they turn to sugar and then fats)


    no complex carbohydrates / grains


    no sugar


    no dairy


    no salt





    Drink lots of water until a couple days before your big scenes. Then you should lose the water those days, to yes, not healthy, but dehydrate yourself.
    How quickly you lose weight depends upon numerous factors such as


    1 first of all your metabolic rate. If you have a high metabolic rate then you will lose weight quickly.


    2 how much you exercise.If you want to lose weight quickly then you are going to have to do a bit of weight training as well along with cardio exercises.You need a full body workout, working on each muscle-group separately.


    3 it is easy to plan a fitness programme but very difficult to stick with it, especially when you don't get the results as quickly as you expect them.


    4 go for a pure vegetarian diet - lots of fruits, vegetables and cut out the fatty foods like cheese, oils, etc.


    5 again, it is easy to plan a diet but very difficult to stick to it.

    Advice on how to get my haircut?

    Hey =]


    I am having my haircut tomorow but don't know how to get it cut, any ideas on what to do with it?





    http://s575.photobucket.com/albums/ss200鈥?/a>





    Any ideas much appreciated!


    thanks =]Advice on how to get my haircut?
    Cut a couple inches off, and layer it, then do some side sweeping bangs!Advice on how to get my haircut?
    I think that you should get it layered and put bangs on the side..that would look awesome with your color.=)

    I need some advice about getting my Runescape password back?

    I was doing a quest around four in the morning and i was tired and my world was lagging but i thought someone was trying to hack me (it's happened in the past) so i changed my password before i quit the quest, because i didn't want to fight some trolls when i was tired, so i changed it and forgot to write it down and when i woke up my mind was a blank, so i tried the standard password recovery method that they have in place, i put my recovery answers down and and a couple of my old passwords and my billing address, my credit card number, my transaction id number from the receit they mailed me, my phone number, and a ton of other info that should have told them who i was, but they won't let me change my password so i can get my account back, is there a phone number i can call to reach them at or a e-mail address i can send my info to?I need some advice about getting my Runescape password back?
    This may help you,





    If you remember you last passwords and you have set a recovery questions it will be very easy...


    so, 1-Go to www.runescape.com





    2-Go to the menus were you can see some zones.





    3-Go to the Account Recovery Zone.





    4-Choose:Recover a lost password and type down your user name.


    5-Choose i have forgotten my password.





    6-answer as many questions as you can.





    Good Luck!


    please choose as best answer!I need some advice about getting my Runescape password back?
    ask the moderators
    if what wasef has said did not work, then you may have been hacked after all
  • mark makeup
  • Breast reduction, should I get one?? I have a 34F chest. I get back pain constantly. Any advice?

    So I have contacted a plastic surgeon, and I am waiting for his approval, and I plan to interview multiple people, but I really know nothing about the procedure, would any one be willing to help me out?Breast reduction, should I get one?? I have a 34F chest. I get back pain constantly. Any advice?
    A good supportive bra will help with your back pain. You dont need to get a reduction. You need to make sure the cup is correct and the proper lift as well. I have been a 34 G my whole life and I can tell that when my bras loose the support I get pain. New bra the pain goes away. Try to get the sport underwire kind that gives a rounded cup instead of pointy ones, that made a huge differance as well. Keep your girls they are gorgeous and in high demand!!! ;)Breast reduction, should I get one?? I have a 34F chest. I get back pain constantly. Any advice?
    have a look on New You magazines website, they give advice about going for cosmetic surgery.


    I think you are doing the right thing as heavy big boobs will give you a bad back.


    The link for the magazine is below :-)





    Good luck x
    i had one. i was a 32DDD/E and now i'm a 32C. it was the best thing i ever did. but only you can say for sure what is best for you.
    I believe you shouldn't do any surgery and you should be happy with the body that god gave you :) I'm a 34B and I wish I had more, so don't take them away.
    NO your body is god given, you look beautful with out make up or changes.. your breast have nothing to do with your back,
    you are best to talk to your gp and they will be able to give you the best place to get advice.

    Sister kicked out and I should get her room, advice?

    My sister is 22 and finally got kicked out of the house for a bunch of reasons, but she left many of her belongings here (clothing, various room decorations, etc). I am supposed to move into her room because mine is going to be storage. I have all of my things boxed up and I鈥檓 ready to go but she has not taken any more of her things and will not tell my family what her plans are. My dad is on her side and my mom is on mine, and they are not talking as usual. I feel bad asking her to get her stuff but I鈥檝e been waiting for weeks and my parents aren鈥檛 helping at all. Any advice? My AIM is LetTheMassesRIOT and my email is katherinetercy@yahoo.comSister kicked out and I should get her room, advice?
    It might be more work for you but you could pack all of her belongings (neatly in boxes) and move your things into your new room. Then make sure you put her boxes in your old room (the new storage room. How perfect is that?!) I'd let your sister know what you are doing and say it in a way that makes it sound like you did her a favor. After all... she'd have to pack it up to move it out anyway. Good luck to you and God bless! Sisters can be wonderful! I have 2 sisters and I have 3 daughters. But anyone who has a sister will tell you that it's not all roses. Just remember... She is your sister and will always be your sister. You just might need her someday. I wish all of you happiness!Sister kicked out and I should get her room, advice?
    pack it up. at least do that for her. it seems that everything is chaos for all of you. to help with some of the tension, box it up.





    so when she does come by, all she has to do is load it up and go through it all on her own. and she can decide what gets tossed or kept.





    yep, just box it up.
    nope
    well you need to have your room too living outta noxes isnt cool. I mean pack her stuff up neatly for her and put it in the storage room for her when she comes to get it they will be ready and little by little hook up the room the way you like it. I mean you can't wait for her to make up her mind and your parents well forget about that just let them know what u are going do to make the situtaion less stressful. If they ever take her back in then she can have your old room.

    Any advice for a first time home buyer...should i get a realtor?

    we are first time home buyers.....help!!!....should we get a realtor?.....we have found homes we want to look at and they are all listed threw agents? What are the costs of getting a realtor? Any information on for sale by owner?......lease/purchase option........or land contract?Any advice for a first time home buyer...should i get a realtor?
    I would get a realtor, however, check with friends or family to be sure that the one you choose is reputable. Don't let yourself be talked into anything, read all the papers. Also, you could try to find a mortgage company i.e. your bank, or another company. See if you can get pre approved, so you know what you have to spend. We tried to buy a home, sometime ago. Our realtor was our landlord, and it didn't work out very well. Just know what you want and don't settle. Good luckAny advice for a first time home buyer...should i get a realtor?
    ';but it can be yours or the sellers';





    Forget that, get your OWN buyer's agent who will look out for YOUR interests.





    Yes, as a first time buyer go with an Agent. You need to do a myriad of research in order to know exactly what you get into with land contracts, buyer finance, contract etc. You can lose a whole lot of money.





    Good luck!
    First thing you must do is get pre-approved for a mortgage. Pre-qualified means nothing. You then go to a realtor and ask to see the properties you like. They show you and you make an offer. In many states, you will need to put down a 1% good faith payment with your offer. Your realtor will guide you though the whole process.
    Yes you should use a Realtor. Let's just put the money out there. The seller pays the commission in most situations. So you get to use someone who is experienced, has negotiating skills and knows the inventory pretty well. Why wouldn't you use a Realtor? Your Realtor looks out for your interests, listens to your needs and follows your instructions on what you want to have happen. They are evreryones best resource for free to buyers!





    Yet they clump us with car salesmen. Well, I don't want to just make a sale, I want to make sure this is your dream come true and that it's a smooth transaction, because I want you to be just tickled pink about your new place.
    Make sure you do a land survey on the property.


    Yes. A Realtor helps, but it can be yours or the sellers.


    They are required by law to disclose information either way.


    Not like a lawyer, who only represents their own client.


    A realtor represents the property...not the owner/seller.


    You will pay closing costs for their service either way...use them for all they are worth....call them constantly with questions. LOL.





    By Owner sales are ';iffy';. Make sure you look over everything and understand it...if not...hire a realtor, or a real estate attourney. Land contract I know nothing about, or the lease/purchase. Your realtor can help there.


    My 2 cents.





    Oh...and if you hire your own agent...like a realtor...they split fees. You still pay the same, but get your own way. And push them for that. Be agressive. Do not be intimidated. Your choice. Up to you. House shopping is not fun. Man your guns!!!!





    ~T

    Advice on how to get better at soccer?

    Tips, drills, conditioning, kicking improvement.


    all info will be helpful.





    Advice on how to get better at soccer?
    like mark said practice makes perfect ....practice for at least 1 hour every day...just dribble the ball try 2 control it....pass it from foot 2 foot.....run a mile a day....for kicking get a big area and try 2 kick the ball with different areas of ur foot.....for long distance try 2 kick the ball from under 2 were u almost kick the ground.......hope this helpsAdvice on how to get better at soccer?
    just always say that u are the player u like..... like guaredado


    just say im guardado and im daring





    if u say ur favorite players name while u play u will fell ur really good
    Ball control is key. Just launch the ball at a wall and try to control it quickly when it bounces back.
    perfect practice makes perfect
    Play more sweetie =) More practice, the better you get!

    I have just found out im 4 weeks pregnant ,im terrified,i need any advice i can get?

    What kind of advice are you looking for? What's terrifying you?I have just found out im 4 weeks pregnant ,im terrified,i need any advice i can get?
    If you were born in 1969 you must be 38 right? There's nothing to be afraid of...you just have 8 more months to go. Just have regular check ups with your gineacologist and make sure you're in a relaxed atmosphere...You can work for now but don't drink, smoke or do anything else that will have an impact on your baby. After the sonogram you can get ready to plan for your baby as you'll know the sex.


    Best of LuckI have just found out im 4 weeks pregnant ,im terrified,i need any advice i can get?
    Make sure in early pregnancy to eat 5-7 small meals per day as this can quell the affects of any potential ';morning sickness';


    Take your prenatals, if they make you nauseous, take them right before bed


    drink plenty of water and juice


    try to not consume over 6 ounces of tuna per week


    get plenty of sleep


    do not take baths that are over 101 degrees


    you can leave the belly ring in for now. Not all womens belly button pops when they are with child. If you start to notice it becoming more shallow, then you should take it out.
  • mark makeup
  • Help i need some advice on how to get toned for the film i will be in?

    i am trying to get toned for this independat movie my bro is filming


    i wrok out four times a week i am eating healthly i am 5;9 inches 168 pounds i was wondering theoretically how long is it going to tak me to loose 15 pounds and how much cardio if i want to see results hard and how many rest days dose the average person have. another question is do u know any healthy foods to eat for lunch and breakfast with low calories, i am going to have to do some sex scene so i want to look my bestHelp i need some advice on how to get toned for the film i will be in?
    The best way to tone muscle and to lose weight is weightlifting.


    The healthiest amount of weight to lose per week is 2-3 pounds anymore then that you may have some problems. So I would say 5-6 weeks to lose in a healthy manner.


    As far a food just watch what you eat, in other words read the nutritional facts. Avoid those with a high amount of sugar (I said high not none!). And eat small portions (nothing that can fill a plate).Help i need some advice on how to get toned for the film i will be in?
    Here's what I've seen work.





    Daily exercise:


    Just walk briskly. That way you wont gain any unwanted muscle bulk.





    Breakfast:


    Fresh Fruit (even 2 or 3)


    Green Tea





    Snack:


    Fruit


    Green Tea or water with lemon





    Lunch:


    Big veggie Salad with water canned tuna, no dressing (add lots of different veggies to really make it appealing)


    Fruit (make it different than before!!!)


    Green Tea or Water with lemon





    Snack:


    veggies - raw





    Supper:


    Protien: fish, skinless chicken, pork, lean beef


    Vegetable: no starchy potatoes.





    Snack:


    veggies (get lots of interesting ones... or try juicing them... no salt)








    Points to remember:


    no fruits after lunch (they turn to sugar and then fats)


    no complex carbohydrates / grains


    no sugar


    no dairy


    no salt





    Drink lots of water until a couple days before your big scenes. Then you should lose the water those days, to yes, not healthy, but dehydrate yourself.
    How quickly you lose weight depends upon numerous factors such as


    1 first of all your metabolic rate. If you have a high metabolic rate then you will lose weight quickly.


    2 how much you exercise.If you want to lose weight quickly then you are going to have to do a bit of weight training as well along with cardio exercises.You need a full body workout, working on each muscle-group separately.


    3 it is easy to plan a fitness programme but very difficult to stick with it, especially when you don't get the results as quickly as you expect them.


    4 go for a pure vegetarian diet - lots of fruits, vegetables and cut out the fatty foods like cheese, oils, etc.


    5 again, it is easy to plan a diet but very difficult to stick to it.

    I need some advice about getting my Runescape password back?

    I was doing a quest around four in the morning and i was tired and my world was lagging but i thought someone was trying to hack me (it's happened in the past) so i changed my password before i quit the quest, because i didn't want to fight some trolls when i was tired, so i changed it and forgot to write it down and when i woke up my mind was a blank, so i tried the standard password recovery method that they have in place, i put my recovery answers down and and a couple of my old passwords and my billing address, my credit card number, my transaction id number from the receit they mailed me, my phone number, and a ton of other info that should have told them who i was, but they won't let me change my password so i can get my account back, is there a phone number i can call to reach them at or a e-mail address i can send my info to?I need some advice about getting my Runescape password back?
    This may help you,





    If you remember you last passwords and you have set a recovery questions it will be very easy...


    so, 1-Go to www.runescape.com





    2-Go to the menus were you can see some zones.





    3-Go to the Account Recovery Zone.





    4-Choose:Recover a lost password and type down your user name.


    5-Choose i have forgotten my password.





    6-answer as many questions as you can.





    Good Luck!


    please choose as best answer!I need some advice about getting my Runescape password back?
    ask the moderators
    if what wasef has said did not work, then you may have been hacked after all

    Sister kicked out and I should get her room, advice?

    My sister is 22 and finally got kicked out of the house for a bunch of reasons, but she left many of her belongings here (clothing, various room decorations, etc). I am supposed to move into her room because mine is going to be storage. I have all of my things boxed up and I鈥檓 ready to go but she has not taken any more of her things and will not tell my family what her plans are. My dad is on her side and my mom is on mine, and they are not talking as usual. I feel bad asking her to get her stuff but I鈥檝e been waiting for weeks and my parents aren鈥檛 helping at all. Any advice? My AIM is LetTheMassesRIOT and my email is katherinetercy@yahoo.comSister kicked out and I should get her room, advice?
    It might be more work for you but you could pack all of her belongings (neatly in boxes) and move your things into your new room. Then make sure you put her boxes in your old room (the new storage room. How perfect is that?!) I'd let your sister know what you are doing and say it in a way that makes it sound like you did her a favor. After all... she'd have to pack it up to move it out anyway. Good luck to you and God bless! Sisters can be wonderful! I have 2 sisters and I have 3 daughters. But anyone who has a sister will tell you that it's not all roses. Just remember... She is your sister and will always be your sister. You just might need her someday. I wish all of you happiness!Sister kicked out and I should get her room, advice?
    pack it up. at least do that for her. it seems that everything is chaos for all of you. to help with some of the tension, box it up.





    so when she does come by, all she has to do is load it up and go through it all on her own. and she can decide what gets tossed or kept.





    yep, just box it up.
    nope
    well you need to have your room too living outta noxes isnt cool. I mean pack her stuff up neatly for her and put it in the storage room for her when she comes to get it they will be ready and little by little hook up the room the way you like it. I mean you can't wait for her to make up her mind and your parents well forget about that just let them know what u are going do to make the situtaion less stressful. If they ever take her back in then she can have your old room.

    Breast reduction, should I get one?? I have a 34F chest. I get back pain constantly. Any advice?

    So I have contacted a plastic surgeon, and I am waiting for his approval, and I plan to interview multiple people, but I really know nothing about the procedure, would any one be willing to help me out?Breast reduction, should I get one?? I have a 34F chest. I get back pain constantly. Any advice?
    A good supportive bra will help with your back pain. You dont need to get a reduction. You need to make sure the cup is correct and the proper lift as well. I have been a 34 G my whole life and I can tell that when my bras loose the support I get pain. New bra the pain goes away. Try to get the sport underwire kind that gives a rounded cup instead of pointy ones, that made a huge differance as well. Keep your girls they are gorgeous and in high demand!!! ;)Breast reduction, should I get one?? I have a 34F chest. I get back pain constantly. Any advice?
    have a look on New You magazines website, they give advice about going for cosmetic surgery.


    I think you are doing the right thing as heavy big boobs will give you a bad back.


    The link for the magazine is below :-)





    Good luck x
    i had one. i was a 32DDD/E and now i'm a 32C. it was the best thing i ever did. but only you can say for sure what is best for you.
    I believe you shouldn't do any surgery and you should be happy with the body that god gave you :) I'm a 34B and I wish I had more, so don't take them away.
    NO your body is god given, you look beautful with out make up or changes.. your breast have nothing to do with your back,
    you are best to talk to your gp and they will be able to give you the best place to get advice.

    Any advice for a first time home buyer...should i get a realtor?

    we are first time home buyers.....help!!!....should we get a realtor?.....we have found homes we want to look at and they are all listed threw agents? What are the costs of getting a realtor? Any information on for sale by owner?......lease/purchase option........or land contract?Any advice for a first time home buyer...should i get a realtor?
    I would get a realtor, however, check with friends or family to be sure that the one you choose is reputable. Don't let yourself be talked into anything, read all the papers. Also, you could try to find a mortgage company i.e. your bank, or another company. See if you can get pre approved, so you know what you have to spend. We tried to buy a home, sometime ago. Our realtor was our landlord, and it didn't work out very well. Just know what you want and don't settle. Good luckAny advice for a first time home buyer...should i get a realtor?
    ';but it can be yours or the sellers';





    Forget that, get your OWN buyer's agent who will look out for YOUR interests.





    Yes, as a first time buyer go with an Agent. You need to do a myriad of research in order to know exactly what you get into with land contracts, buyer finance, contract etc. You can lose a whole lot of money.





    Good luck!
    First thing you must do is get pre-approved for a mortgage. Pre-qualified means nothing. You then go to a realtor and ask to see the properties you like. They show you and you make an offer. In many states, you will need to put down a 1% good faith payment with your offer. Your realtor will guide you though the whole process.
    Yes you should use a Realtor. Let's just put the money out there. The seller pays the commission in most situations. So you get to use someone who is experienced, has negotiating skills and knows the inventory pretty well. Why wouldn't you use a Realtor? Your Realtor looks out for your interests, listens to your needs and follows your instructions on what you want to have happen. They are evreryones best resource for free to buyers!





    Yet they clump us with car salesmen. Well, I don't want to just make a sale, I want to make sure this is your dream come true and that it's a smooth transaction, because I want you to be just tickled pink about your new place.
    Make sure you do a land survey on the property.


    Yes. A Realtor helps, but it can be yours or the sellers.


    They are required by law to disclose information either way.


    Not like a lawyer, who only represents their own client.


    A realtor represents the property...not the owner/seller.


    You will pay closing costs for their service either way...use them for all they are worth....call them constantly with questions. LOL.





    By Owner sales are ';iffy';. Make sure you look over everything and understand it...if not...hire a realtor, or a real estate attourney. Land contract I know nothing about, or the lease/purchase. Your realtor can help there.


    My 2 cents.





    Oh...and if you hire your own agent...like a realtor...they split fees. You still pay the same, but get your own way. And push them for that. Be agressive. Do not be intimidated. Your choice. Up to you. House shopping is not fun. Man your guns!!!!





    ~T

    Advice on how to get better at soccer?

    Tips, drills, conditioning, kicking improvement.


    all info will be helpful.





    Advice on how to get better at soccer?
    like mark said practice makes perfect ....practice for at least 1 hour every day...just dribble the ball try 2 control it....pass it from foot 2 foot.....run a mile a day....for kicking get a big area and try 2 kick the ball with different areas of ur foot.....for long distance try 2 kick the ball from under 2 were u almost kick the ground.......hope this helpsAdvice on how to get better at soccer?
    just always say that u are the player u like..... like guaredado


    just say im guardado and im daring





    if u say ur favorite players name while u play u will fell ur really good
    Ball control is key. Just launch the ball at a wall and try to control it quickly when it bounces back.
    perfect practice makes perfect
    Play more sweetie =) More practice, the better you get!
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  • I have just found out im 4 weeks pregnant ,im terrified,i need any advice i can get?

    What kind of advice are you looking for? What's terrifying you?I have just found out im 4 weeks pregnant ,im terrified,i need any advice i can get?
    If you were born in 1969 you must be 38 right? There's nothing to be afraid of...you just have 8 more months to go. Just have regular check ups with your gineacologist and make sure you're in a relaxed atmosphere...You can work for now but don't drink, smoke or do anything else that will have an impact on your baby. After the sonogram you can get ready to plan for your baby as you'll know the sex.


    Best of LuckI have just found out im 4 weeks pregnant ,im terrified,i need any advice i can get?
    Make sure in early pregnancy to eat 5-7 small meals per day as this can quell the affects of any potential ';morning sickness';


    Take your prenatals, if they make you nauseous, take them right before bed


    drink plenty of water and juice


    try to not consume over 6 ounces of tuna per week


    get plenty of sleep


    do not take baths that are over 101 degrees


    you can leave the belly ring in for now. Not all womens belly button pops when they are with child. If you start to notice it becoming more shallow, then you should take it out.

    Advice on how to get a UK work permit?

    hi im currently in south africa at the moment was wondering if any one has any advice on how i find out about companies that are willing to sponser me for a work permit? i have apllied to loads of jobs but always have my application rejected.. i dnt know if the fact that i dnt have a degree is going against me??


    any help would be appreciated...Advice on how to get a UK work permit?
    No you dont need a degree to get a work permit but it will depend on what work experience you have. Im a OISC registered Immigration adviser and help individuals like yourself find jobs in the UK please visit our website www.visaworkpermits.co.uk and we can assess your eligablity to work in the UK and assist you in finding an employer.





    website is www.visaworkpermits.co.uk





    good luckAdvice on how to get a UK work permit?
    I do not know.
    Apply to one of colleges for certain course of not less than 6 months. Maybe that changes with time, but people receive permits usually if they pay for education.

    I am really shy. can anyone give me advice to get over it?

    and sometimes i get nervous around new people


    or just stand there and dont know what to sayI am really shy. can anyone give me advice to get over it?
    Look man, First off I am sure its not so much that your boring or have no personality.You just focus on it too much.Pay attention to what people like and what things they are into.If you know things about that then just start talking about that.Like if its football, just be like hey man whats up? You see the game last night? If you can talk to your family which in most cases with all people are the strangest and most judgmental people you will know, You can talk to anyone.You can talk to them because your not focused on it.Relax! and just make an effort, Its not going to get better till you get used to trying.I am really shy. can anyone give me advice to get over it?
    I'm shy too.... after i started middle school it helped a bit tho... and now I'm a bit better too! just be urself around all people and don't care wat they think when u do.... ppl make fun of me a lot cuz I'm individual and they want to be like every one else all same... just be u and don't care wat others think thats wat helped me!

    I want to be a cop for San Francisco PD, any advice on getting hired?

    I am also enlisting with the Navy with MA rating, will that help. I live in FLorida ?I want to be a cop for San Francisco PD, any advice on getting hired?
    dont smoke potI want to be a cop for San Francisco PD, any advice on getting hired?
    Start liking hippies and hating yourself. Refer to yourself as ';pig'; as much as possible. Hate the Marines to get bonus points.
    Don't ask; don't tell.





    Better yet, become an attorney instead.
    - Previous experience is probably one thing that is wanted.


    - Good moral character with proper values.


    - Physically and mentally fit.


    - No previous violations of any sort (Example - jail time, etc.).
    you would most likely have apply to and be accepted to attend a police academy.





    and if you've seen the movies - you can have a great time.





    LOL
    Now is a really good time. San Francisco needs about 300 officers. Just apply and be sure not to lie at any time on any application or interview. If you do they will find out about it.
    Oakland needs police officers too. That's just across the bay.
    Depends. Do you have any police experience in Florida? Any CJ courses? Although I think a lot of officers may have some kind of military background, I doubt it's an automatic ';in';.


    Also, it's San Francisco - so, according to the movies, you will have to be adept at driving over hilly streets, dodging Chinese dragons in parades and avoiding men that seem to always to be carrying a large pane of glass across the street!


    Kelly
    More and more police departments are running credit checks on applicants. Make sure your finances are in order.

    Could someone give me advice about how to get rid of pain for a sprained wrist?

    okay, what happened was i was at school and being the idiot i am i tripped. =) haha. but anyways i fell backwards, and naturaly i put my hands out to break the fall, they were like behind my back if you can imagine that?? well i landed on my right wrist and it bent upwards (like my fingers were pointing towards the ceilings) well now theres minor brusing and its a little puffy, and sore and hurts. so should i just wrap it up and let time do its thingCould someone give me advice about how to get rid of pain for a sprained wrist?
    did you go to the Dr.? It could be broken. It helps to elevate it and rest it. Take Ibuprofen is not allergic. Need an xray if have not had one,Could someone give me advice about how to get rid of pain for a sprained wrist?
    Fix the damaged tissue which is generating the pain signal.





    http://www.helium.com/tm/148271 for the basic how to information.





    Time does nothing it's your build in healing/regeneration system that does repair work. In automatic mode that system is at best 70-80% effective, so if you want to suffer for ever just wrap it up and ignore it.

    ANY ON GOT advice ON meeting a woman?

    I just got out of a 3 year relationship so I have been out of the loop for a while.. she found someone and I need to fill that void cause it is sad to think about their relation's and not have my own!ANY ON GOT advice ON meeting a woman?
    I would suggest getting off the computer and going out in the world. Get some fresh air in your lungs and sun on your face. It will be hard at first, but just try to go and do things that interest you. Museum, library, church, grocery shopping, whatever it may be. You can meet people everywhere.ANY ON GOT advice ON meeting a woman?
    Churches are great places to meet people.
    First of all..why is there a ';void'; if you are not involved w/someone? Try hanging out with yourSELF for awhile! It will boost your self esteem AND make you more interesting and confident, which, btw, women like.





    Besides that, NO woman wants a man who looks ';desperate';, any more than men do! So...make sure you look relaxed and adopt the attitude (a good thing anyway) that you're NOT in a rush to get into a relationship.





    Find women w/common interests. In the end....this can be far more important to a lasting relationship than how ';in love'; you are. People who are often ';passionately'; in love can be the worst for each other in the long run...





    But if you're a true romantic, then go for it (the passion) and take the ride, wherever you may end up. IF you're practical, then try to see how compatible you'll be w/your dates.





    But above all...try being compatible...FIRST AND FOREMOST....with yourself!!! Without that, you're just leeching off every woman you date, and they'll know it.
    Just let it happen... don't just meet someone, because you want to fill that void.... but do go out to meet ';people';... maybe you meet a person- who knows someone and that person introduces you to someone else... before you know it- you are with someone you are madly in love with again. Relax and most of all make yourself attractive again... for yourself.
    think very deeply about what interests you. Then you have to find a group of people who share those interests with you.





    It can be anything you want, and most of all it has to be a part of you that you like.





    Meeting others this way is far better than doing the random chance thingy at some sleazy bar where they only look good and robb you of your heart and soul.
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  • Well, i got advice that i should eat a lot of fruits. Is pear ok?

    I ran out of apples but i do have pears and bananas, is that ok? Will that give me energy and provide glucose. And grapes too.Well, i got advice that i should eat a lot of fruits. Is pear ok?
    pears are great. They are high in fiber and taste good too. Bananas are are also good, and high in potassium. Grapes are high in sugar, pretty much any fruit is good.Well, i got advice that i should eat a lot of fruits. Is pear ok?
    a pear is definitely a fruit,,,but there is an old addage,,,';AN APPLE A DAY KEEPS THE DOCTOR AWAY';,,apples,oranges ,peaches,pineapples,pears,,all good fruit
    sure


    http://www.best-diet-food.com
    Yes, you should eat two-four servings of fruit a day even though fruit are healthy the have glucose(sugar) in them
    Fruit is good for you but not in extreme amounts. Fruit does contain a lot of sugar for energy but you have to balance sugar out with protein or your glucose level could crash leaving you with too low of blood sugar levels.
    most fruit has similar ingredients. its probably best to eat a variety to get the benefits from everything!
    they are OK too as long as they are fresh and not from cans =good luck and enjoy=they all supply their own sugars and bananas have potassium as well

    Does anyone have any advice on how to get my 13 month old to sleep thru the night and to sleep in his own bed.?

    Been there done that. I had the hardest time getting my son into his own bed. You are gonna just have to let him cry himself to sleep at night. At the beginning it might be a few hours of crying, but after he gets used to it, it won't take as long. Just ignore him in the middle of the night too if he starts crying. He will get the idea eventuallyDoes anyone have any advice on how to get my 13 month old to sleep thru the night and to sleep in his own bed.?
    I hate to say it, but to get them to sleep throguh thenight usually the best thing is CIO method. I have been lucky that my daughter has been sleeping through the night in her own crib since 6 months. She stayed in a bassinette up to 6 months. She was small so the weight limit was fine and she wasn't trying to sit up or pull up yet. Once she gotto big she went to her crib and was fine with it. She has never been in my bed one single night. However last night she had an episode. I don't know what her deal was. She is not sick and no fever or anythign but she screamed bloody murder when I laid her down. I let her cry for about 10 minutes and went back in b/c she got hysterical, I rocked her to sleep and then laid her back downonly for her to wake up and scream some more. I have always hated the idea of CIO, but every time I would go in it got worse and she was so tired so I just let her cry. it about drove me crazy, but after about 10 minutes she went to sleep and slept through the night. You may have to try that with sleeping through the night. As for breaking the co-sleeping habit I have no idea. I've never done it to begin with.

    I am going into high school and I want to get homeschooled. Please give me advice!

    Ok, in the past year I have had to deal with mean girls. Last year only about 10 girls hated me. But now, over the course of summer, like, 30 girls hate me! I don't even know why. I only have like 2 friends and they are not even real friends. They are embarassesd to hang out with me. I also really hate public school in general. I figure that if nobody hangs out with my this year, I am pretty much a bully's target. I need more direct attention so I can do better in school. So I figure home schooling is the way to go. But I have a 4 -year old sister and she need's all my mom's attention right now. Also, my mom is busy with other things a lot so she couldn't teach me. Finally, I came across the perfect option: Online home schooling. Can anybody tell about the morning star academy? I really want to enroll there. Can you give me advice on how to ask my parents to go there? Does morning star academy really work? How can I convince them? How much does it cost? If you don't know about Morning Star, then what else would you recomend? I think the fact that Morning Star is a christain school too, will really help convince my mom. So please, I just need some advice. please and thank you!I am going into high school and I want to get homeschooled. Please give me advice!
    http://www.virtualonlineschool.blogspot.鈥?/a> has an article about explaining to your parents about homeschooling





    For online schools check into


    http://www.k12.com/homeschool





    I think you might really enjoy homeschooling. You will get to spend time with your mom, learn in a less stressful environment and take up some outside hobbies.





    I'm not familiar with Morningstar. Learn all you can about them online. Contact them to see if there are some other students and parents, that use their program, that you can speak with about the school.





    Best of luck to you!


    jana


    http://www.purehomeschooling.comI am going into high school and I want to get homeschooled. Please give me advice!
    The solution is not to get away from society. Homeschooling will only make you more secluded: develop your social skills now. High school is a lot better than middle school. Middle school is the pits. If you are a genuinely nice or interesting person, as people mature they will appreciate that.
    Running away from problems is not a good idea. You need to go to the principal and deal with these bullies. Bullying is illegal and the school is required to stop it.



    High school is the best time years of your life don't throw it away you need to tell someone trust me i was bullied since 6th grade and i almost did something that i was going to regret you have to tell someone because your letting them take over you like a target your letting them win you have to place your foot down and not let this happen to you tell your parents trust me and tell the school if they don't listen tell your parents to tell the school because some schools don't really listen to the students for my school instance my parents told them if they didnt do anything they would be sued so you must put your foot down or they will squish u like a lil bug :o
    I agree with Jana but at the same time I have to say that if you do go back to school in the future will you be picked on even more as the 'nerdy home schooling girl'? In Australia we only have primary school and then High School. My last year of primary I was popular and friends with everyone it was great. Suddenly in high school everyone was about 13 and the girls got their monthlies and turned into the most horrible people. I didn't understand it at the time as I was a bit behind in that way. In short it was really hard for about a year and a half... A very long time it felt to me. I would pray every day on my way to school and I was full of anxiety. I lived next to school and went home every lunch time just about for a bit of peace. I was even locked in the art room one lunch - I cant explain how humiliating that was: How dare they lock ME in the back room!! No one deserves that. And you cant tell the teachers. I mean you can but you will just be more isolated and embarressed. Imagine if they told everyone ';These mean girls locked Gem in the back room'; That just wouldve humiliated me more! I dont mean to scare you. But whatever your choice really pray for good friends and dont stop praying, because half way through the next year I found a group of girls that were there all along but I never realised would be my friends. I then had the best friends all through high school and beyond. I can't explain to you how special this was and how blessed I have been to experience this true friendship. Its rare and only comes along every now and then... Hold on to God.


    PS: My school was a private Christian School - could your mum afford this? My mum was single so it was hard for her but a priority and the school gave her reduced fees (in primary she cleaned some classes 3 days a week for free education) XXO

    What is some advice on getting a Nintendo Wii from local stores?

    December 7th is the next shipment.What is some advice on getting a Nintendo Wii from local stores?
    ';remember the wii on dec 3';





    http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>What is some advice on getting a Nintendo Wii from local stores?
    just check out buy-wii-online.com


    It'll be alot easier to get one online. I got mine on Walmart.com yesterday and its going to ship by i think december 5th.





    Good Luck!!
    If someone you know works there just try to ask them to get you one. Or you probably have to wait out side of stores for about 48 hours.





    December 1st and 3rd are when the next shipments come in!
    Ok here is the deal. I got one on Black Friday so anyone who says that they arent getting shipments doesnt know what they are talking about. Ive been talking to people at an EB Games near me and they are sayn they are getting shipments at the end of every week hopefully. Ive been in there everyday for the last 2 weeks looking for a PS3 and they keep telling people to come back on the end of the week. Your best bet is a place like EB Games and to go in there and get to know the peopel who work there. they can give you some info on when the shipments will be. Other stores like Target and Best Buy will also get shipments but they are more impacted with costomers and you probably cant get as much information out of thier employees.

    Give me advice..i have broke up with my boyfriend & i need advice to get us back together & i NEED him w/ me..

    i broke up with my boyfriend one night because he was telling others about me and my best friend's problem.. i got TERRIBLY MAD.. later in days...after i broke up with him.. i found out that he didnt tell other people about me and my friend's privacy stuff on purpose.. someone FORCED HIM TO SPILL EVERYTHING OUT.. and i felt bad.. and i want to be with him again.. what should i do.. please help me.. i know it is my fault.. but i am crying my heart to death.. i am in a place of darkness.. and seeking for the way out.. all i need is GOD TO BE with me and for my ex to come back to me.... what should i say..im just clueless...and help me because he is like the finest boy out of all the boys i know.. i dont want to lose him to other people... he told me that im his best grl friend that he have ever dated..and the longest relationship that he had with a grl.. i want to be with him.. help me...Give me advice..i have broke up with my boyfriend %26amp; i need advice to get us back together %26amp; i NEED him w/ me..
    Was someone shoving bamboo under his fingernails? Was a gun pointed at his head? Was someone threatening to shove a red-hot poker in his eye? No? Then the ';forced him to spill everything out'; story doesn't fly.





    You don't NEED him with you; you WANT him with you, in spite of the fact that he tells private details about you and your friend. This doesn't bode well for any relationship.





    Take some time alone, and examine your feelings a little better. Distance tends to give one better perspective.Give me advice..i have broke up with my boyfriend %26amp; i need advice to get us back together %26amp; i NEED him w/ me..
    Tell him you reacted because of private stuff between you and another, not you and him. Then tell him you want to be with him but that means that he needs to trust you and you need to be able to tell him things and trust him too
    Apologize to him for your mistake. Tell him you want to be with him and ask him if he still wants to be with you. If he says ';yes,'; great. If he says ';no'; then leave him alone. Suck it up and be mature. Don't sob or beg. He may be back after he thinks about it, but if not leave him alone and move on. Time will make things better. Get support from your friends and family in the mean time.
    eve though i am in 4th grade, i can solve your problem. Tell him you are sorry and you had no idea that someone forced him to tell. Then do some thing really nice for him.
    Nobody can FORCE anybody to do anything. If he spilled everything, it was because he wanted to, not because he was FORCED. Did they have a gun pointed at his head when he spilled the beans? I doubt it... he's a little gossiper and you cannot change that. If you want him back, then so be it, but you know what? I don't think it's worth it, because the respect and trust is not going to be there ever. You're a teenager from what I can tell, don't worry about it, you'll get someone else. Oh, and by the way, it's not always about having the ';finest'; boy, you'll eventually find someone worth your time and real love, not infatuation ;o)
    Just tell him you are sorry and you really mean it, thses words you told here should be sent to him not us. and then let him decide.. if he loves you.. he would love to be back with you maybe more than you do. just give him the chance..


    If he loves you he will come to you.


    tell him.. ';Because Love can't be found where it's not exists and can't be hiden where it does, plz be back..';


    and Hope evry thing ll be allright
    Go over his house in a long jacket and only a long jacket.Tell him you want him........Back!
    I know it seems like you cant make it without him, but you are wrong. In time you will forget about him and be better off. Trust me love is not a one time deal, You can be happy without him. If you get back together with him, you will just break up again. Say you are sorry and move on. There are a million guys that can make you just as happy or even happier.
    well Personaly I think that your gonna have to figure this out on your own. If you teel him what you just told the world, sincerly then I would come back to you, I o't know about him though
    Well I know how he feels. And he can't live without you. He's desperate foryou. You shouldnt have problems. In fact, no matter how old u r, expect some sex the night u get back together.
    well hang in there if he loves you he will come to his sences and know that you and him belong together
    First off. no one can force someone to say something.


    Second, have a talk with him.Pick him out once he's with no one else.Apologize.What have you got to lose?You only live once.
    You had every right to be mad if he was telling very private things about you and your best friend to others. A strong relationship demands trust from each other and he violated that trust. How exactly did someone else FORCE him to tell everything? If there was no realistic threat of death to your boyfriend then there was no real reason for him to tell anyone anything. It really sounds like your heart is hurting, but ask yourself if this is really the kind of guy you want in your life, someone you can't necessarily trust. You mention you want God to be with you. Are you praying to God and then listening for His answer? Ask God what He wants you to do. Pray to Him for strength to get through the rough time you are having right now and ask Him to begin healing your heart. Yes, you are hurting right now, but maybe being away from this guy will help you see that you don't necessarily NEED a guy in your life right now. I was married for 20+ years and my wife cheated on me and then wanted out of our marriage. I, too, felt like I needed someone in my life. Three years later, I feel good about being by myself. I just began dating about 6 months ago and am seeing a wonderful woman. That time alone made me realize that even though I like being with someone, I don't NEED anyone to be happy. Don't be desperate for him. Think about it, pray about it, and listen to God's answer. He will help you through it.


    I hope this wasn't too preachy or ';religious'; for you, but it's what got me through my rough time.
    call him and say sorry and tell abt misunderstanding

    Can i get some girl advice?

    I was about to go out with someone that i truly adore. we were talking about her friends. She named two people who she claimed were bringing her down..they were turning her into a worse person than she was. it turns out that she decided that i wasnt good enough anymore and she started dating one of her friends that brought her down.








    should i say something to her?


    what should i say?


    is there a possible way to get her back?Can i get some girl advice?
    I think she's said enough for you, Matt.





    It may be her choice to say and do what she did, however, you found out how she feels about you and you weren't even dating her. Females can change their minds and moods according to where their head and maturity level is at, but I thought what she told you about yourself was really obnoxious and insensitive.





    Why would you want to say or have anything to do with this girl anymore? I would just leave it and her alone, don't take her calls, don't hang out anymore, don't say hello, nothing, she's not worth the heartache.





    I have 3 boys, Matt, I would NEVER want a girl to treat my sons this way.Can i get some girl advice?
    Just try to talk to her and ask her what happend. Dont ask anyone else just her. What other people say could be totally made up. So ask her.
    I would maybe ask her about it. as far as getting her back, I would just be there for her, and be a good friend to her. Then, when things don't work out with him, she will realize she should have dated you in the first place. Or you could just move on, and find someone who wants you just as much as you want her! best wishes!
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  • Advice to get over it!?

    My long term ex left with no real explanation soon before I was due to move into his. He wouldn't elaborate on ';not feeling the way he should about us'; then he said his goodbyes forever. I am getting on fine, getting on with my life. I sent one email asking how he was a month later, the reply was ';fine.'; Its like he's someone else altogether. So I've left it, trying to pick up the pieces and get on with it. I don't understand him at all, I didn't see it coming and thought everything was fine. In the meantime, any advice to forget about someone, is lack of closure something you can get over easily enough, is it unnecessary really. And how do I trust another guy again? Thanks in advance for you time and advice :)Advice to get over it!?
    just chill with friends, go hang out, do lots of exercise and take care of yourselfAdvice to get over it!?
    If he left you for no reason hes not worth the trouble, trusting another guy probably will be a little hard but trust me I have gone through this, just wait a while until you feel alright about having another boyfriend.
    There is no closure. There's just getting over.


    The problem is we trust a little less after each bad relationship or ending. Just give it some time and concentrate on things you enjoy doing.


    Good luck.
    This is the hardest thing to get over... It cannot really get over a heartbreak you just learn to deal with it. The best thing you can do is continue dating other ppl and do not jump into a serious relationship. Not all guys are alike dont let the next guy u date suffer from ur ex's mistakes!
    Yeah, sometimes we aren't allowed the dignity of closure, and it hurts something awful. Do the things you love to do. Enjoy whatever fills you most. Be with friends who are supportive. Go to lunch... go to the movies... fill your days. Just stay busy, and talk it out with the people in your life who care about you. Thats really the best advice one can offer. Try not to contact him, as it will only make this harder on you. It will just rake up unnecessary and avoidable pain and give you new crap to mull over. As far as trusting again, you'll have plenty of opportunity to practice when the right guy comes into your life. Just focus on today for now.