Need advice!!cant get over this girl?

sorry about the length


i have been with my girlfriend for nearly 3 years,im 27 she is 24...we really had a great relationship up until i bought a house about 5 months ago...i asked her to move in so she did...we were both really excited about our future etc...things were fine for a while,...my girlfriend started getting down about her job and i have a business that was struggling at the time,there were other issues outside our relationship that was having an effect on it,i know how important communication is but ours just dissapeared for some reason(it was always great before)so we sat down and spoke one evening and decided maybe we moved in together too soon...she moved back to her old place(something i massively regret)...it was tough but i think sometimes you have to take 1 step back to take 2 steps forward...after all that we both decided that communication was the big issue we had to deal with living together,and we were getting on great...i was getting the house up to scratch to make it comfortable for both of us,we both went to choose things for it so it would feel like home for us...then suddenly she became very distant a few weeks ago,we met and i asked her what was up,she started crying saying ';she feels weve gone backwards with her moving out and she felt unhappy';...i told that i loved her and if she needs time to think things over thats fine,id wait as long as it took just as long as she was happy...i drove home very upset..then when i looked at my phone when i got home i had 3 missed calls from her so i rang her....she said shed made a huge mistake and that i was the love of her life and no-one would treat her better than i would and was sorry for taking me for granted over the last while...i love her so i said we'll pretend tonight never happened...she seemed really relieved and happy and said she was just thinking too much because some of her friends were engaged and a few were getting married...we have discussed marriage of late and its something i really want...anyway,we saw each other the next night and had a great laugh but ever since she has become distant again??its just really strange..she doesn't call when she says she will and says she's busy if i ask does she want to go out some night,just things like that...last night she didnt text or call like she said she would,then my sister walked into a club at 4am and saw her with a guy from her work............i asked her why she didnt call again and she said she had no right to treat me the way she had been but she couldnt do ';this'; at the moment....i know i wasnt the perfect boyfriend but i always treated her really well....





well i posted that a few months ago and we broke up a day after i posted it...we havnt spoken since and i said a few things i regret like she wasnt hurting me and i was free now and stuff...i know i have to move on but im finding it tough despite having great family and friends...its really affecting me...should i just let her get go??...i saw her picture on facebook today and started shakeing...i was a really laid back person until this situation....this just isnt me...


Need advice!!cant get over this girl?
lol its like i just got finished answering another guy on something just like this.





i told him its like when a song gets stuck in ur head. u just think of another song and the 1st 1 will go away. so maybe it works the same way for guys like u. there was this guy i liked once but he treated me like dirt and kept wanting 2 b with other girls all the time so finally he just said he didnt want 2 c me ny more. im like THAT SUX but i couldnt stop thinking about him. then i looked thru a ';details' magazine and got off on a few of those hot hunks lol and pretty soon i wasnt thinking about the other guy. i figured id meet somebody else somewhere and i wouldnt even b thinking of him ny more.