Thursday, August 19, 2010

ANy advice to get over ex?

My ex and I were together for four years. We have a two year old daughter together. A few months ago we got into a argument and he ended the relationship. We hadn't been getting along well, but i thought it was something that we could work on together. He moved in with his best friend and now is dating someone else. WE are very civil when we see each other for the sake of our daughter. However, ever time i see him it hurts. He has our daughter on Sundays and mondays ever week. Every time we see each other he brings up the things his girlfriend and him do with the kids. (she has a child too). It hurts so bad because i just think that that's suppose to be my family. We used to do things together. Anyways i guess i just want to know if anyone has any advice for me too get over him. I'm still in love with him and miss him.ANy advice to get over ex?
Allow yourself the opportunity to feel sad. Sometimes when we're hurting this badly we want to deny the pain. You are going to feel this for a while and you will learn from this experience. This person had a purpose in your life for a time. He didn't have the strength that it took to stay in a committed relationship and somehow you are going to have to find a way to forgive him for that. But you are going to have to accept that. True love needs to be shared and you will find someone that is strong enough to share your love and stick around through thick and thin. Enjoy your freedom to the best of your ability while you can because you will find love again.ANy advice to get over ex?
You need to move on and find someone thats gonna eventually fall in love with you. You don't want to revolve your life around someone who is clearly moved on. The same way you fell in love with him and thought that there would never be anyone else for you can happen with another man. Just think to yourself that you deserve love and deserve to be happy also. I know its hard to get over someone that you are in love with and have a child with but it can be done.
break ups takes time to heal even when there is a child involved. your feelings for him will be there for awhile but you need to stay positive that you will find love again even if it is not with him.
Time. Only time can mend a ';Broken Heart'; my dear. Good luck
Start dating. It helps. No need to get into a relationship or anything serious...just go out and have fun.


The only way your ex will notice you is when you start having fun again and getting out there.

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