Sunday, August 22, 2010

Need some advice to get through this. some help plz?

as of lately, i can't even stand looking into the mirror. it seems i'm always wanting to cry. i thought i had true friends who would help me get through this, but they only care about what's happening to them and their boyfriends. i'm always sitting by myself now. i've made many attempts to talk with them but after a few seconds of talking, they go back to ignoring me. only one true friend will continue to be by my side. i really appreciate that but i know i can't be all over her





i take everything too personally and i always think i'm the blame for something. i hate thinking like that because i know it always puts me down even lower. but i can't help it. i've tried to have a positive outlook on life yet i can only see the negative





i don't even get pleasure from the things that i enjoy: drawing, playing my guitar, and listening to music. everything just....feels.....boring and useless. i have tried new things, like trying to learn some of a new language, but i lose interest too easily





i don't know what to do now. i feel lost in life. is there anything that i can do to slowly get myself out of this?Need some advice to get through this. some help plz?
Sounds exactly like depression....you just need to talk to someone about it such as your friend and it might make you feel betterNeed some advice to get through this. some help plz?
Is sounds like you may be suffering from depression. You may want to take the time to sit down and talk to your parents, a guidance counselor, or teacher about how you are feeling. You may have to see a doctor and start therapy and possibly take medication, but doing all of these things will help you get better and feel better about yourself. It is nothing to be ashamed of, but it can get worse if left untreated.





I know how you are feeling. I have been there and battled my way back. You can do the same with the right kind of help. Best of luck to you!!
hmm..feeling lost, as sad as it may seem, is a normal part of growing up. trust me.


im not going to preach to you, namely cause im only 17 myself, and im still trying to find my way, so its not like iv the right to preach. and i would never preach to you about god. i know how useless he can be to most people first hand.





all i can really say, that has ANY meaning..what so ever..is this...keep going. things can always get worse. and no..its not saying ';just try to keep a positive outlook';, i know that a lot of things will never seem to have a positive side to them.


some old scientist chick (dont remember her name ^^' ) said something along the lines of...';dont be afraid of hard moments. its from them great things come';








and dont make yourself think your to blame for everything. feel sorrow for those around you, apologies for their circumstances if you feel sorry for them. but unless you actually did it, you've no reason to take the blame. do not add the weight of false blame to that already heavy load on your shoulders.





and as for not having much interest in things you once enjoyed, i asked i similar question once before and people said it was probably depression.











sorry i cant really be much help, im still trying to figure this stuff out for myself. but if you need someone to lean on, or someone to listen, feel free to contact me at any time ^^...id be glad to help.

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