Monday, August 23, 2010

SERIOUS I NEED ADVICE ..MIGHT GET KICKED OUT?

so im really in love with this guy(he's my special friend but we tlk everyday) bt he's in mexico my mom found out i was calling long distance so she took Everything away 4rm me including my phone im 17 years old nd my special friend is 20 ,nd she said if i tlk to him 1 more time she's gnna kick me out nd send me to mexico i wnna go but idk ,how can i still communicate with him????


p.s i am legal in u.s thanxxSERIOUS I NEED ADVICE ..MIGHT GET KICKED OUT?
She can not legally kick you out. You are still not an adult. In order for her to kick you out legally you must go through a court process. Another reason why it isn't legal is because she has to evict you too. No matter who you are staying with, she must legally do the paperwork to get you out.





Do not go to mexico, you will miss it here. You may be with your boyfriend, but you have to do what you have to do, not go where he is. Happiness comes in different forms, do not take a man to think that you will be happy there.SERIOUS I NEED ADVICE ..MIGHT GET KICKED OUT?
You can start with a job, so that you have money. With money, you can buy a new prepaid cell phone and talk to him. You are nearing an age where your mother really no longer has any responsibility for you. If your mother is talking about kicking you out, you have far greater problems than how to get in touch with your amigo. You need to have a plan for where you are going to live, how you are going to manage transportation, and how you are going to pay bills and buy groceries.





Have you even started to think about living independently? If not, it's time that you got your act together. I suspect that might be part of the message that your parent is trying to send to you. Your parent may be fully aware that next year, you are at an age where you have the responsibility to support yourself, and rather than making any progress towards that goal, you just spend all day on the telephone.





Bottom line is that when you are 18, you can do whatever you want, but ONLY if you can earn the money to support yourself and the choices that you want to make. It's not really your parent who is keeping you from doing what you want to do. If you really want to do something, you can and should find a way to get it done yourself. That's what being an adult is all about.
If you are in love with him then there should be no fence between you and the guy. If you only want to communicate with so go to an phone booth secretly from your mother and talk to him and you can also ask him to send letter not to your place but place of the person which you trust and he can also send you letters. so, Good Luck! and you will get yopur love
Please consider the possibility that this guy is using you in order to get married so that he can legally enter the US in a MUCH SHORTER amount of time.





If it's real love then he would be willing to settle for handwritten letters or emails, until you finish your education, and can get a job somewhere else besides a place where you have to ask people if they want fries with their burger.
1st of all ur mother cant kick u out because ur not 18 yet and if u really want to talk to him buy a calling card when dose not charge u on ur phone bill or talking to him through the internet and try making the phone calls when nobodys home or use a pay phone
Have you actually met this guy? Is he for real?





If not, your mother is absolutely right to stop you phoning him. Otherwise, you'll need to get Skype or similar and start using that - he should get it too, because it's free. Or else there's MSN.
Yeah thats what happened to me and my husband long long ago, you should start writing to each other, cause you see rebellious.


If you were meant to be together, your paths will cross one day.
I can 99% guarantee you will be heartbroken in a matter of years from some random guy in Mexico looking for a greencard. Your mother has the right idea, this guy is trouble get out
Same question, same answer.





Your mother is smarter than you and recognizes this guy for the loser/bad influence that he is. Forget him.
Infatuation .....





equals ...





Big mistake ....





Choose well, Mom has a bit more life experience ... she loves you ... trust her on this one.
how are you legal if your 17? but anyways, why dont you just use skype or something. skype is free with other users
email....telephone booth......Mail.......call on home phone when ur home alone

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