Any advice to get over a cheating girlfriend?

I had a girlfriend for the past year, we loved each other and everything was amazing and going perfectly. I spent my whole senior year of high school being with her and this was my first real relationship. I found out she did a lot of stuff with another guy. She cheated on me and lied out of her *** about it to me.





I can never forgive her and she knew if she ever cheated on me there would be no second chances.





Ive never felt this low before. I have blocked her from every way possible to not contact me. myspace, facebook. txting. calling. all blocked but I completely miss her. Its so hard to just end things like this but like I said there is no way ill ever go back to her even though she is waiting for me to forgive her.





What can I do to get her out of my mind? Im so hurt from what she did to me and I would just wait it out but I leave for marine corp boot camp in a couple weeks and I MUST get over this before I leave.





Hooking up with other girls hasn't helped much..Any advice to get over a cheating girlfriend?
I know the reality of the situation sucks, but it happened and now you have to deal with it. Now that you know she cheated with you, you realize now that you don't want to be with that kind of girl. It's better finding out now than 3 years in the future if you're still together.





I know you miss her but she CHEATED on you.





1. She betrayed you


2. She disrespected you


3. She destroyed your mutual trust


4. She lied.





That's bad dude. I know you had fun but she screwed you over. Sometimes the closest people you're around can crap on your heart. It happens to all of us. Fortunately we have the cognitive ability to solve situations and problems. Time is one huge band-aid. It will help heal. I promise. :DAny advice to get over a cheating girlfriend?
Why don't you just allow her to talk to you indirectly, text, message etc. Because you don't get attached as easy or affected as much because its indirect contact, you don't have to hear her voice, see her face, none of that ****. Just establish that if she tries to hit on you, you just won't talk to her anymore. You won't miss her because you can talk but at the same time its safe because you established what's gonna happen if she crosses the line.
hmm the best thing is time you can try going out with friends spending more Time with family just doing something you enjoy but at the end your still going to miss her you won't be completely over her until your ready and only time can prepare you for things like this i say give it a couple of weeks or months and don't give your self a dead line that will just make it harder so just relax and focus on more important things in life
just make contact and say to her how you feel, man up, your going to be a marine, you just have to express how you feel, if you bottle this it will eat away at you until there is nothing left (have a listen to madonna frozen), just say to her that you were hurt by what she did but nevertheless you havent known anyone quite like her and you just wish that you had had the chance to prove how much she meant to you so the whole situation could have been avoided, go for closure mate.


all the best.
do her best friend and completely cut her off from everything to do with you for a couple months. dont say a word to her , dont answers calls .
Only time can heal your wounds. There's no quick fix to get over her.





Just be glad you did the smart thing by breaking up with her.
Real men would suck it up. In the military, they say girls are a waste of time.
Hang out with your buddies more to kill off those ill memories.
do some stuff with your guy friends to get her off your mind. talk to her about it
just go out and have fun, you'll find someone who will take your mind off her eventually
breaking up seems like the answer
oh,


I'm sorry.


I dont know what do do, though
hooking up with other girls is supposed to help but the fact that it isn't for you means you are not ready to move on.





you have too much unfinished business with her and before you will ever be truly happy again you need to sort it out.





arrange to meet her face to face and talk about what happened, make sure she knows exactly how you feel.





by telling her your thoughts and feelings like how hurt you are will enable you to completely move on.





good luck :)


xxx xxx
You have to realize that you are in control of your brain and emotions. As soon as you get a memory of her put another one on top right away, for example if you are Christian you can pray a short prayer. If you have a great goal think about your goal and how good it will feel when accomplish it. If you like you can give a dollar to the poor every time you think of her, get a jar, and at the end of the month donate it to the first low income person you see on the street, there is plenty of people that need a few dollars to eat, you can make somebody happy out of your misery.


Good look in the marine corps. You will get over it and you will not feel a thing once you have moved on emotionally and mentally but you must work on it. You won't free yourself unless you make an effort.
**** her back and then throw her down the front steps and yell out to the first person you see and say ';is this trash yours?';.
well this happened to me my senior year of high school, i was with this guy for a year and a half and i thought he was the love of my life and i would never get over him......well that was in 2004 and in 2005 i met the REAL love of my life and we've been together and got married this year...i couldn't be happier! my point is just remember that someday her cheating on you will turn out to be the best thing because it will leave you available to meet the person your really supposed to be with :) not someone who doesnt appreciate you
Hooking up with girls has not helped?


Honestly man, ive never been cheated on but i have been dumped before, its not fun. The best way IS to hook up with other girls.


Date as MANY as you can.


Any pick up artists will say if your sad over a girl,


Get two more.


And as we all know, time heals wounds, its hard to understand it at first but it will feel better over time, believe me.


So, just date more girls, and make her see that your doing fine without her. This helps me.


But it takes time, you'll get it.


Just wait it out, and the other women will help you take your mind off her.





Or just eat a tub of ice cream and watch The Notebook. Its your call.