So I have been engaged since December 08 to a US Soldier. Everything has been perfect almost unreal. He went to a new MOS School for 7 weeks and everything was fine..we talked on the phone everyday and sent packages. Well I flew to see him graduate and we stayed the week in his hometown then came home one week ago. Everything has been fine. We currently live in Ga, and in one month from today we had planned to move to Washington for his new post. We were getting married this friday. Well yesterday he acted weird and I knew in the bottom of my heart something was wrong. He invited me over so I looked very nice and went there hoping everything was okay. It wasn't though...through all my begging him not to leave me here it still didn't work. All he could say was he didn't want to do the things his father did and he was just like him and he didn't want to marry me and start a family then end up sleeping around on me. It is just so hard because I love him and he says he loves me but hed rather hurt me now than years down the road. Can anyone give me advice? What can I do to get this feeling out of my stomach? Please help.Just need some advice to get over this heart ache..?
All this tells me is that you want to re-unite, and you are in a great shape - since your communication ahs already initiated you are already half-ready!
Simply follow this guide:
http://www.get-your-ex-back.info/planit.鈥?/a>
That should complete your story on a positive note - it is a great thing and has helped a lot of cases like yours.
This is an alternative resource, and also works great:
http://www.get-your-ex-back.info/gethimb鈥?/a>Just need some advice to get over this heart ache..?
at least he was honest with you, maybe he's scared and needs some time to think about his life and what's going to happen to him in the future, I'm sure he does love you and he's not trying to hurt you, just be patient with him and I'm sure things will work out for you,,,,, good luck,,,,,
you're lucky because you have an honest boyrfriend. it is good that he tells you his feelings now rather than when you're both committed already. i know it hurts a lot but you have to accept it. move on. it's just mind over matter. you can do it!
This happens alot. Now you just have to ask yourself how important this person is to you and how long you are to wait for him. In this situation though, in my opinion you should give him space, dont let him know that you are hurting.
I AM IN THE PLAYPEN WITH MILDRED
YOU HAVE TO BE FREE MINDED PEOPLE IN LOVE AFFAIR. DON'T TAKE IT SERIOUSLY. TAKE IT EASY.
If he really loves you he'll be back. He is stressed out right now, that's my bet. It was very hard for him, but he told you the truth.
It hurts, but if it's not going to happen, then it's not meant to be. There is someone else that is supposed to be yours.... It sounds like he is at least cares enough to be honest.
Realize that he is already sleeping with someone else.
Let him go to see what happens.I AM IN THE PLAYPEN WITH MILDRED
Sure he may have meet another girl or he may just have cold feet. Lots of people go through this before their marriage. I would talk to him and ask him for the truth. If he has meet someone else let him go. If this is not the case tell him you would still like to go with him to Washington and the two of you can worry about marriage latter.
But the fact that he told you he was like his dad makes me think he may have cheated on you or had the urge to cheat.
Sorry.
he's met someone else, and no longer wants to marry u, he doesn't want to be tied down now, because he realizes he wants to be with the new person. there is no way for u not to be hurt over this, because u gave this man your heart, and he Just doesn't feel the same anymore. usually its because theres another woman in his life. my only advice is to face what has happened, don't try to change his mind it will only rob u of your dignity, and u will feel humiliated. get in a self help therapy group where u will find some support with this, he doesn't want to marry right now, because he's met someone else and wants to be with her. it does hurt, theres no way out of the hurt but to face it head on and accept it unfortunately.
It sounds like he got ';cold feet'; about the wedding.
Where do the two of you stand now that the wedding is off? Are you still engaged? Or did he want a total break?
I'm so sorry for you. However, as difficult and as painful as this is right now, believe me, it is better that your fiance expressed his doubts about his ability to be a successful husband NOW, before your wedding, rather than to have waited.
Surround yourself with people who love you -- family and friends, talk to your minister or a trusted counselor. You're really fragile right now. Their love will help cushion and nurture you.
Good luck!
Tuesday, November 22, 2011
Ugh please give advice: i get sick everytime i drink BEFORE i EVEN start?
i think it may be nerves but still it really sucks a lot
its only sometimes say before we head to the session/party/bar or whatever then i feel real sick and i havent even takin in a drink or anything
and then if i do feel it it doesnt go away until i DO get sick
its not everytime but a lot of the time when i know i'm going to be drinking or i'm anticipating it like.
can this happen?
EXAMPLE: first time i ever went to a session
had something to eat beforehand
got sick when we arrived and then continued to drink and be merry for the rest of the night but it still sucks like because its taking me longer to get sick from when i first get the feelingUgh please give advice: i get sick everytime i drink BEFORE i EVEN start?
So what is your body trying to tell you?Ugh please give advice: i get sick everytime i drink BEFORE i EVEN start?
smoke weed instead
i agree smoke weed.napoleon perdis
its only sometimes say before we head to the session/party/bar or whatever then i feel real sick and i havent even takin in a drink or anything
and then if i do feel it it doesnt go away until i DO get sick
its not everytime but a lot of the time when i know i'm going to be drinking or i'm anticipating it like.
can this happen?
EXAMPLE: first time i ever went to a session
had something to eat beforehand
got sick when we arrived and then continued to drink and be merry for the rest of the night but it still sucks like because its taking me longer to get sick from when i first get the feelingUgh please give advice: i get sick everytime i drink BEFORE i EVEN start?
So what is your body trying to tell you?Ugh please give advice: i get sick everytime i drink BEFORE i EVEN start?
smoke weed instead
i agree smoke weed.
Can someone give me advice how to get a job?
It depends on if you have any experience. If you don't , then you have to start somewhere which means apply at any retail and work your way to the top. Everybody worked at some crummy retail enviornment before they found their dream job (whatever it is) so, go apply at your McDonalds and worksome, save enough money to go to your local community college. Take vocational classes like the computer software classes then volunteer at some non-profit organzation. Once you have some paid experience, that is when the staffing agencies will help you find a job.Can someone give me advice how to get a job?
Well times are not how they used to be. It's hard to be honest and get ahead or just sqeak by. Which the majority of us do everyday. Learn what the company wants tweek your resume to match there needs. Put on a good poker face and and pretend in the interview you know exactly what you are doing. Which I am a horrible at that is why I do not have a job now. I have this horrible disease called honesty. Wait several months learn the proper people to ask nicley why they never called you back and try to play chameleon again. Even though you know there were a hundred other applicants ahead of you and the statitics are never in your favor because there is always someone more qualified. You might try asking someone that has a good paying job and brown nose if they have an opening sometimes it helps. But the idea that a job can get you what you need to survive in this world is a joke, because look at the cost of living compared to what the job pays. Would you pay yourself to be a slave for someone else and not have your food and shelter costs paid for? You might as well try to employ yourself at least you'll never be fired. But you still might starve because few bussiness plans actually pan out. So welcome to the real world and join the club we'er all in the same sinking boat. We really do care we're just cynical.Can someone give me advice how to get a job?
Hopefully you have had some kind of job before. if so then you can work with the experiences you gained from the last job and fix up a good resume for yourself, think about the job or type of field you would like to work in, in a positive way, and get creative by thinking of all the things you would have to do in order to get that job. Know in your heart that it WILL happen for you, and maybe even show initiative by going into a few places and asking to speak to the manager and convince them that you are the best one for the job, of course you have to believe it, and then BAM you get a job.
Well times are not how they used to be. It's hard to be honest and get ahead or just sqeak by. Which the majority of us do everyday. Learn what the company wants tweek your resume to match there needs. Put on a good poker face and and pretend in the interview you know exactly what you are doing. Which I am a horrible at that is why I do not have a job now. I have this horrible disease called honesty. Wait several months learn the proper people to ask nicley why they never called you back and try to play chameleon again. Even though you know there were a hundred other applicants ahead of you and the statitics are never in your favor because there is always someone more qualified. You might try asking someone that has a good paying job and brown nose if they have an opening sometimes it helps. But the idea that a job can get you what you need to survive in this world is a joke, because look at the cost of living compared to what the job pays. Would you pay yourself to be a slave for someone else and not have your food and shelter costs paid for? You might as well try to employ yourself at least you'll never be fired. But you still might starve because few bussiness plans actually pan out. So welcome to the real world and join the club we'er all in the same sinking boat. We really do care we're just cynical.Can someone give me advice how to get a job?
Hopefully you have had some kind of job before. if so then you can work with the experiences you gained from the last job and fix up a good resume for yourself, think about the job or type of field you would like to work in, in a positive way, and get creative by thinking of all the things you would have to do in order to get that job. Know in your heart that it WILL happen for you, and maybe even show initiative by going into a few places and asking to speak to the manager and convince them that you are the best one for the job, of course you have to believe it, and then BAM you get a job.
Need lawyers help: Advice to get divorce soon?
I have decided to divorce my husband for the following reasons
1. Sexual problems- He is having intercourse with me but not releasing sperm as he is afraid of not having child now. The reason he says is he not settled in life but he tried to book house for 70 lakhs in a joint housing loan. He feels settled for such a huge loan but not settled to enter in to family way.
2. Domestic Violance - He beats often (atleast once in ten days) for very small issues or quarrels
3. He scolds me often with abuse words
4. Lot of restrictions/conditions like should not go at stay in mom's place, should not speak to my parents without his permission etc.
I feel like he is showing false affection and really he is not having affection/love/care over me at all..
But, he may not accept for divorce as I am working and I earn a lot., he will definitely need me for the money...
Now how can I get divorce soon...Need lawyers help: Advice to get divorce soon?
Hi
I saw your question I have decided to help people out due to the fact that I myself has been scammed twice by fake lenders in my search for a loan but at last I got a reliable lender that gave me the loan($60,000 USD) that I was in dire need of even with a bad credit. Hence I decided that I will refer anybody I come across to this God sent lender he is reliable and his terms are fair. You can get to him via his email address charles_lenders@yahoo.com Please tell him that Deborah Kirk he gave out a loan to me . I have search for a legit lender until I got him and I decided to help my fellow humans with this because there are a lot of fake lenders out there and I do not want any body to fall a prey please get to him and tell him that I referred you to him.
Thanks.
Deborah KirkNeed lawyers help: Advice to get divorce soon?
Wrong place to seek a lawyers help. Go look up your local yellow pages or look for a divorce lawyer online.
I am not sure if this website will help but try
www.nolo.com
1. Sexual problems- He is having intercourse with me but not releasing sperm as he is afraid of not having child now. The reason he says is he not settled in life but he tried to book house for 70 lakhs in a joint housing loan. He feels settled for such a huge loan but not settled to enter in to family way.
2. Domestic Violance - He beats often (atleast once in ten days) for very small issues or quarrels
3. He scolds me often with abuse words
4. Lot of restrictions/conditions like should not go at stay in mom's place, should not speak to my parents without his permission etc.
I feel like he is showing false affection and really he is not having affection/love/care over me at all..
But, he may not accept for divorce as I am working and I earn a lot., he will definitely need me for the money...
Now how can I get divorce soon...Need lawyers help: Advice to get divorce soon?
Hi
I saw your question I have decided to help people out due to the fact that I myself has been scammed twice by fake lenders in my search for a loan but at last I got a reliable lender that gave me the loan($60,000 USD) that I was in dire need of even with a bad credit. Hence I decided that I will refer anybody I come across to this God sent lender he is reliable and his terms are fair. You can get to him via his email address charles_lenders@yahoo.com Please tell him that Deborah Kirk he gave out a loan to me . I have search for a legit lender until I got him and I decided to help my fellow humans with this because there are a lot of fake lenders out there and I do not want any body to fall a prey please get to him and tell him that I referred you to him.
Thanks.
Deborah KirkNeed lawyers help: Advice to get divorce soon?
Wrong place to seek a lawyers help. Go look up your local yellow pages or look for a divorce lawyer online.
I am not sure if this website will help but try
www.nolo.com
Anyone have any advice on how to get texting?
Ok well i have been asking my dad for a while if i can get texting and he always say no for some stupid reason
here are the reasons i think
not very good grades
never ask for help
and they think im to young
anyone have any advice on how to get texting\
PLEASE HELP IM WANT TEXTING SO BADD!!!Anyone have any advice on how to get texting?
When I was like 10 and wanted an AIM, I wrote an essay as to why I should have one. My parents really impressed with my passion for it, that they decided. Try something like that instead of just begging.Anyone have any advice on how to get texting?
when i was in sixth grade and most of my friends and I have texting, so I doubt you are too young. Try to show responsibility and start doing extra chores and stuff to gain trust and then bring it up again. Say that a good way to comunicate and keep up with how social you are is to text.
well,
based on their reasons.
study hard and get really good grades on your next couple tests.
ask for help around the house, do a couple extra chores and do everything right.
then stop whining and acting like a baby, and mature some.
that will show them that their reasons are no longer reasons and that they should give you texting =D
Maybe get better grades. But it may also be the cost. Right now people are trying to save money because the economy is bad. But you may not realize that because you are young.
here are the reasons i think
not very good grades
never ask for help
and they think im to young
anyone have any advice on how to get texting\
PLEASE HELP IM WANT TEXTING SO BADD!!!Anyone have any advice on how to get texting?
When I was like 10 and wanted an AIM, I wrote an essay as to why I should have one. My parents really impressed with my passion for it, that they decided. Try something like that instead of just begging.Anyone have any advice on how to get texting?
when i was in sixth grade and most of my friends and I have texting, so I doubt you are too young. Try to show responsibility and start doing extra chores and stuff to gain trust and then bring it up again. Say that a good way to comunicate and keep up with how social you are is to text.
well,
based on their reasons.
study hard and get really good grades on your next couple tests.
ask for help around the house, do a couple extra chores and do everything right.
then stop whining and acting like a baby, and mature some.
that will show them that their reasons are no longer reasons and that they should give you texting =D
Maybe get better grades. But it may also be the cost. Right now people are trying to save money because the economy is bad. But you may not realize that because you are young.
Monday, August 23, 2010
Every time i saw him , i am thinking of sex , please advice me how to get rid of it?
every time i saw him , i am thinking of sex , please advice me how to get rid of it , i cant help my self , i always want to have sex with him , every time i saw him , anyone can give me step by step how to overcome this feeling , please please please .Every time i saw him , i am thinking of sex , please advice me how to get rid of it?
LOL to the guy above me!!!Every time i saw him , i am thinking of sex , please advice me how to get rid of it?
masturbation.
Find a way to distract yourself, or get help for your obsession.
LOL to the guy above me!!!Every time i saw him , i am thinking of sex , please advice me how to get rid of it?
masturbation.
Find a way to distract yourself, or get help for your obsession.
Need advice on to get rid of scars...?
Some people tell me that my scars aren't that bad but yet when I take a picture it looks bad...
Here is my picture...
http://i180.photobucket.com/albums/x295/鈥?/a>
How can I make my acne scars lighter...
Oh yeah does my skin really look horrible??? Some people say I don't need make-up and others well I don't know what they think when they look at my face... ADVICE anyone???Need advice on to get rid of scars...?
neosporinNeed advice on to get rid of scars...?
honeslty i would see a professional dermotologist. they have new laser resurfasing treatment s/ face peels that are available to greatly improve how your skin looks. get a consultation and they make a decision to try it. it would be worlth it. save your money and get part of the treatment done. good luck to you.
You could try Mederma or you could also give the Neutrogena Advanced Solutions Acne Mark Fading Peel a try. Both are good for facial scars.
I don't think your face looks that bad regarding the scarring. I also get very bad ance and scarring. Try palmers skin success eventone fade cream. It comes in 2.7 oz jar and is sold at almost any drug store such as Walgreens, Eckerds, CVS, etc. Also, very cost effective under $5. Put it on twice daily like it says and use sunscreen if going to be out in the sun. I'ved used it alot over the yrs to get rid of ance scars b/c my breakouts leave bad scarring. You should see a huge difference in about a few weeks. And i find if you use it as soon as you get an ance scar your scar completely disappears after awhile to the point where you can no longer see it anymore. Only thing is i would recommend not using on same spot after 3 months but scar should clear way before then. Here's a link for more details http://www.etbrowne.com/about/skinsucces鈥?/a>
Hope this helps.
Im sorry to say, but you totally ruined your skin by treating your acne badly. Wear cover-up, thats all I think you can do.
a friend of mine has the same problem. I'M NOT TRYING TO BE MEAN, BUT IT DOES LOOK SORTA' BAD. TRY CALLING A DERMATOLOGIST. I HAVE A DERMATOLOGIST THAT HELPS ME W/MY SKIN...AND I USED TO HAVE ABOUT 3/4 ACNE SCARS..., BUT W/THE DERMO'S HELP %26amp; MEDICINES THAT SHE GAVE ME... they're gone %26amp; my skin is perfectly clear. GOOD LUCK!!!...and remeber, u r who u r...don't transform into someone you're not.
make-up can cover everything but it can also make ur acne worse! if u really need to wear make-up, plz remove it well before u go to sleep. I hardly wear make-up (however i do use skin care products and sun screen to protect my skin) my advice is to go to dermatologist and use the right skin care products.
I had a lot of scars but my mom told me to use cocoa butter and it really works u can find it at a drug store!!!!
to be honest your skin is like perfect from faces i have seen. i wouldn't worry too much about it. you can also get a microdermabrasion it will help you get rid of your acne scars. it is a safe and cheap procedure. you need to look online about a microdermabrasion. you'll be so happy that you got it done. the results are amazing. i hope i helped you sweetie and good luck with it ok. i would say microderm is the answer for you.
I honestly don't think it looks bad but the photo is a bit dark and are you wearing makeup? Looks fine to me and I was prepared to be honest...
scars don't ever go away but there are ways to reduce their appearance. 100% pure essential oil of lavendar helps reduce the appearance of scars. I've also heard not to be in too much direct sunlight. Vitamin E cream will also help.
May deer because you still a young girl, when you growin up you will become.....!
Mederma makes a gel treatment for scars. It doesn't completely get rid of them, but it does help them appear less noticeable.
Try Maderma. Its for scars. I used it for scars from mosquito bites and it worked on my face too.
If your not wearing makeup your skin doesn't look that bad. Try some of the daily moisturizers to help with uneven spots, Like Neutrogena Visibly Even. Make sure it has SPF to keep the spots from getting darker.
But to cover up your red in the meantime use concealer only where u need it.
Here is my picture...
http://i180.photobucket.com/albums/x295/鈥?/a>
How can I make my acne scars lighter...
Oh yeah does my skin really look horrible??? Some people say I don't need make-up and others well I don't know what they think when they look at my face... ADVICE anyone???Need advice on to get rid of scars...?
neosporinNeed advice on to get rid of scars...?
honeslty i would see a professional dermotologist. they have new laser resurfasing treatment s/ face peels that are available to greatly improve how your skin looks. get a consultation and they make a decision to try it. it would be worlth it. save your money and get part of the treatment done. good luck to you.
You could try Mederma or you could also give the Neutrogena Advanced Solutions Acne Mark Fading Peel a try. Both are good for facial scars.
I don't think your face looks that bad regarding the scarring. I also get very bad ance and scarring. Try palmers skin success eventone fade cream. It comes in 2.7 oz jar and is sold at almost any drug store such as Walgreens, Eckerds, CVS, etc. Also, very cost effective under $5. Put it on twice daily like it says and use sunscreen if going to be out in the sun. I'ved used it alot over the yrs to get rid of ance scars b/c my breakouts leave bad scarring. You should see a huge difference in about a few weeks. And i find if you use it as soon as you get an ance scar your scar completely disappears after awhile to the point where you can no longer see it anymore. Only thing is i would recommend not using on same spot after 3 months but scar should clear way before then. Here's a link for more details http://www.etbrowne.com/about/skinsucces鈥?/a>
Hope this helps.
Im sorry to say, but you totally ruined your skin by treating your acne badly. Wear cover-up, thats all I think you can do.
a friend of mine has the same problem. I'M NOT TRYING TO BE MEAN, BUT IT DOES LOOK SORTA' BAD. TRY CALLING A DERMATOLOGIST. I HAVE A DERMATOLOGIST THAT HELPS ME W/MY SKIN...AND I USED TO HAVE ABOUT 3/4 ACNE SCARS..., BUT W/THE DERMO'S HELP %26amp; MEDICINES THAT SHE GAVE ME... they're gone %26amp; my skin is perfectly clear. GOOD LUCK!!!...and remeber, u r who u r...don't transform into someone you're not.
make-up can cover everything but it can also make ur acne worse! if u really need to wear make-up, plz remove it well before u go to sleep. I hardly wear make-up (however i do use skin care products and sun screen to protect my skin) my advice is to go to dermatologist and use the right skin care products.
I had a lot of scars but my mom told me to use cocoa butter and it really works u can find it at a drug store!!!!
to be honest your skin is like perfect from faces i have seen. i wouldn't worry too much about it. you can also get a microdermabrasion it will help you get rid of your acne scars. it is a safe and cheap procedure. you need to look online about a microdermabrasion. you'll be so happy that you got it done. the results are amazing. i hope i helped you sweetie and good luck with it ok. i would say microderm is the answer for you.
I honestly don't think it looks bad but the photo is a bit dark and are you wearing makeup? Looks fine to me and I was prepared to be honest...
scars don't ever go away but there are ways to reduce their appearance. 100% pure essential oil of lavendar helps reduce the appearance of scars. I've also heard not to be in too much direct sunlight. Vitamin E cream will also help.
May deer because you still a young girl, when you growin up you will become.....!
Mederma makes a gel treatment for scars. It doesn't completely get rid of them, but it does help them appear less noticeable.
Try Maderma. Its for scars. I used it for scars from mosquito bites and it worked on my face too.
If your not wearing makeup your skin doesn't look that bad. Try some of the daily moisturizers to help with uneven spots, Like Neutrogena Visibly Even. Make sure it has SPF to keep the spots from getting darker.
But to cover up your red in the meantime use concealer only where u need it.
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