Tuesday, November 22, 2011

Every time i saw him , i am thinking of sex , please advice me how to get rid of it?

every time i saw him , i am thinking of sex , please advice me how to get rid of it , i cant help my self , i always want to have sex with him , every time i saw him , anyone can give me step by step how to overcome this feeling , please please please .Every time i saw him , i am thinking of sex , please advice me how to get rid of it?
Do it NOW!Every time i saw him , i am thinking of sex , please advice me how to get rid of it?
The reason you having that feeling is that you always put your mind on sex so when you see something related to it then you want it.I suggest you keep you mind on some other thing such as shopping with your friends,travelling or doing some thing about commonweal to experience dfferent feeling.You can get rid of it if you make decision to do it.the problem is whether you have made strong decision.wish you success and have other good things in your life.
Since you didn't say who he is, its hard to say what is the appropriate way to act with him





For yourself though, it sounds like your mind is putting you up to things you know you shouldn't be doing.


please try this when you feel overwhelmed by those thoughts.





Mediation technique





We experience life through our mind.


Experiences are what they are, but the mind often puts a new spin on them, making them seem worse at times.





Meditation is all about controlling you mind rather than being controlled by it.


It is difficult to directly approach the mind and tame it, so we start by approaching the nearest manifestation of it- breath.


It can be seen that when we have tremendous concentration we are not breathing as regularly, and when upset breath shallow and rapid.





How to do this.


Begin by becoming aware of your breath.


With each inhalation pay attention to the air entering you right nostril(air will enter both,but focus on the column of air in the right side)


Exhale and pay attention to the column leaving your left nostril.


Inhale and pay attention to air entering the left nostril


Exhale and pay attention to air exiting the right nostril.


Then breath deep and feel the air in both sides rise up to the tip of your nose(like an inverted V ),


and push it all out(feeling both sides).


This is one cycle, you can do up to 100 in a day.





It is a simple game to keep the mind busy(if you loose track on count restart), and off the things it can't change with worry(realistically everything).


As you get better at this you'll be able to identify a space between your thoughts. As that awareness deepens you'll feel a peace when it arises. And soon you should be able to identify yourself as that peace rather than your mind.





Keep yourself physically distant.


If you have to be around him, then keep thoughts opposing sex in your head(you will have to wrestle the mind for control).








Good luck.
All of God's creatures are here to make birthday suits for HIS souls. I hope your fella feels the same way and brings them up.
Just do it till you can't anymore.
you have needs, satisfy them.
do it

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